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19.08.2007, 16:27 quote

Anonymous

Tell me why I get loads of hits on my profile, but no replies? I have sent off loads of mail, but I still have had only two replies.

One was a nice to see you, but thats all, and the other was from a girl (who shall remain nameless) that was just after a visa!

The last one contacted me, I did not contact her!!!! So please tell me, Do my feet smell or something? or is it, I am just out classed by the rest of the male's on here?

I am starting to get a little lonely out here on my own, and would love some fed back please.

 

19.08.2007, 16:47 quote

imperfect

What kinda things do you write in the messages you send?? You've gotta try stand out a bit.. errm I dunno, compliment the person you're talking to maybe? women like to feel special
And maybe you could fill out your profile a bit more and say more about yourself! Umm and I really think you shouldn't send loads of mail Send less, and send interesting ones

 

19.08.2007, 16:53 quote

Anonymous

Although I made a serious reply to your other post asking the same question, I thought I should point out that double posting the same question might sound a bit needy and desperate, and you're probably not doing yourself any favours.

 

19.08.2007, 17:00 quote

Anonymous

I do , I think? I am always complementary and I have only sent about 14 msgs out, is that loads?

I am never naughty, but what would you like to hear? What would get your attention? I would like to know?

I will admit to being inexperienced at this! So any help would be greatefully received. Thanks for your reply.

 

19.08.2007, 17:31 quote

imperfect

14 messages is loads as you've only been here since august 10th!
i'm not very helpful lol. And you should just say nice stuff and take an interest I can't tell you exactly what to say, that depends who you're talking to I guess, use your own judgement Very Happy Also, i kinda agree with darkhorse, just one thread about this would've been enough!

 

19.08.2007, 22:59 quote

Anonymous

The three Cs...

Cash, brain & comedy.

 

20.08.2007, 17:34 quote

Anonymous

you want the truth, ditch the picture, it makes you look like a midget

get a mate to take some good pictures of you, or take a few yourself at different angles

 

20.08.2007, 21:36 quote

Anonymous

Just keep trying, beware as their are so many fake profiles on flirtbox... I really can't be bothered to send messages out anymore, messages I usually get are from fakers too. Luckily I found 1 person that is great on FB =)

 

21.08.2007, 12:59 quote

Anonymous

Thanks to all the people that have answered my blog. The comments have been very helpful, and I am truly grateful.
Very Happy

 

21.08.2007, 19:11 quote

Anonymous

The first thing they're looking for is a nice photo. If you have that one cracked you could be halfway to a meeting. But wont help when you actually do meet though.

 

21.08.2007, 19:14 quote

Anonymous

money, thats all they will ever care about...don't kid yourself that it's good looks or your charming personailty. It all boils down to money

 

21.08.2007, 19:18 quote

Anonymous

icelandicwolf wrote:
money, thats all they will ever care about...don't kid yourself that it's good looks or your charming personailty. It all boils down to money


I'd probably beg to differ, but obviously that is your experience. Although some might be

 

21.08.2007, 19:19 quote

Anonymous

Jeggae wrote:
The first thing they're looking for is a nice photo. If you have that one cracked you could be halfway to a meeting. But wont help when you actually do meet though.


I think the first thing is ....'Having ''A'' photo. good or bad in your opinion as this is subjective, and if your saying that having a good photo doesnt help when you do meet, then why dont you have a pic on here v Confused

 

21.08.2007, 19:20 quote

Anonymous

Jeggae wrote:
icelandicwolf wrote:
money, thats all they will ever care about...don't kid yourself that it's good looks or your charming personailty. It all boils down to money


I'd probably beg to differ, but obviously that is your experience. Although some might be



sorry but no, if they can't milk you for every peeny you have then they won't be interested.

 

21.08.2007, 19:35 quote

Anonymous

icelandicwolf wrote:
Jeggae wrote:
icelandicwolf wrote:
money, thats all they will ever care about...don't kid yourself that it's good looks or your charming personailty. It all boils down to money


I'd probably beg to differ, but obviously that is your experience. Although some might be



sorry but no, if they can't milk you for every peeny you have then they won't be interested.


Thats not my experience in the real world mate. I know loads of women that are after anything else but money. Also some women i talk to on the net earn more money then me.

Obviously you must have had a bad experience or two.

 
 
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