Tell me why I get loads of hits on my profile, but no replies? I have sent off loads of mail, but I still have had only two replies.

One was a nice to see you, but thats all, and the other was from a girl (who shall remain nameless) that was just after a visa!

The last one contacted me, I did not contact her!!!! So please tell me, Do my feet smell or something? or is it, I am just out classed by the rest of the male's on here?

I am starting to get a little lonely out here on my own, and would love some fed back please.

What kinda things do you write in the messages you send?? You've gotta try stand out a bit.. errm I dunno, compliment the person you're talking to maybe? women like to feel special
And maybe you could fill out your profile a bit more and say more about yourself! Umm and I really think you shouldn't send loads of mail Send less, and send interesting ones

Although I made a serious reply to your other post asking the same question, I thought I should point out that double posting the same question might sound a bit needy and desperate, and you're probably not doing yourself any favours.

I do , I think? I am always complementary and I have only sent about 14 msgs out, is that loads?

I am never naughty, but what would you like to hear? What would get your attention? I would like to know?

I will admit to being inexperienced at this! So any help would be greatefully received. Thanks for your reply.

14 messages is loads as you've only been here since august 10th!
i'm not very helpful lol. And you should just say nice stuff and take an interest I can't tell you exactly what to say, that depends who you're talking to I guess, use your own judgement Also, i kinda agree with darkhorse, just one thread about this would've been enough!

I think your profile is fine and says quite a lot about you, so it's more a question of whether the women who view you or to whom you send messages think that you're their kind of man. Having a lovely smile is all well and good, but if you live in the opposite end of the country, then for many ladies, it would be a non-starter.
As for the hits on your profile, well I always have a look at the men who have visited my profile who have a picture to see, and sometimes more than once 'cos I've forgotten I'd already looked and found they live too far away, or simply not my type. I think you'll just have to be patient.
Joining in more of the threads in the forum here will enable your personality to come out too.
I prefer to be 'wanted' rather than 'needed' so any hint from a guy of desperation or dependency I would steer well clear of them.

I don't think 14 messages = much after 9 days of joinin...
As for the hits... Someone viewing your profile doesn't mean they will find you to be their type... Say me for example... I click on the people online when I'm bored... Try composin your messages well and not send the same message to everyone and I think you'll be just fine.

The three Cs...

Cash, cock & comedy.

you want the truth, ditch the picture, it makes you look like a midget

get a mate to take some good pictures of you, or take a few yourself at different angles

Just keep trying, beware as their are so many fake profiles on flirtbox... I really can't be bothered to send messages out anymore, messages I usually get are from fakers too. Luckily I found 1 person that is great on FB =)

i guess women are looking for a confident man who makes them feel sucure, happy, loved, but they dont get it to easily off you so they dont take you for granted.

as for profile viewing i dont no, alot of people dont like making the first move or what to say to someone, and everyone has different types
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Thanks to all the people that have answered my blog. The comments have been very helpful, and I am truly grateful.

The only things that first attracts me to a guy, and this is an honest answer is Honesty and Humour. Obviously its hard to now at the beginning of a relationship if your being 'fed a few lines', in the honesty department, but if you make me laugh your half way there ........... and i dont mean cheesy one liners, i mean natural born humour, which is very difficult to find ......... but fun searching though ............... xx