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05.09.2011, 17:18 quote

jobeeey
Joined: 04 Sep 2011 Posts: 5 Location: United Kingdom, England, Berkshire
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As the title says ^^


Mine is still ripped out and my guts feel like they've fallen out of my arsehole..

I'm wondering if any of you seasoned lovers have any tips or advice on how to better manage the pain that comes with the tearing apart of 2 people?

Smile

 

24.09.2011, 09:32 quote

s6boystu
s6boystu Joined: 07 Mar 2008 Posts: 3089 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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There is no way to deal with it. You just 'mope' about until one day you wake up and she isn't your first thought, you don't realise it at first..

You do need to cut all contact with her, take down any pics, erase her phone number, try not think about her when you go to bed, you need to try not to cry yourself to sleep every night thinking about her.

The hardest part is not comparing everyone else you meet to that one person. There was obviously a reason you split. Do what you've got to do - i started writing a blog as i find it helps get feelings and emotions out and it helps to remove the awkwardness when a friend asks how you are.. (my friends read my blog)

But then... what do i know.. i'm in love with someone i can't have and for some reason my mind won't accept that. Denial i think they call it.. Confused
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24.09.2011, 09:32 quote

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If there really is to be a soul mate out there, I think your soul mates are those people who make you feel at home, wherever you are. That hearing their voices and knowing they're close to you (even if in thought) makes you feel at ease.

 

24.09.2011, 17:51 quote

scriptwriter

Channel it into writing poetry, songs or a film script. Then you can profit from it and have cash in the bank for when you eventually meet someone loving, caring and most of all committed.

 

24.09.2011, 17:58 quote

mrgadd
mrgadd Joined: 09 Apr 2009 Posts: 6 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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Jump on Flirtbox and find yourself another woman Razz

 

24.09.2011, 17:58 quote

mrgadd
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Jump on Flirtbox and find yourself another woman Razz

 

24.09.2011, 23:43 quote

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Jump on Flirtbox and find yourself another woman

Finding a jump on Flirtbox has the same odds as a rat swimming up someone's toilet U-bend...

 

27.09.2011, 07:34 quote

cindia
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jobeeey wrote:
As the title says ^^


Mine is still ripped out and my guts feel like they've fallen out of my arsehole..

I'm wondering if any of you seasoned lovers have any tips or advice on how to better manage the pain that comes with the tearing apart of 2 people?

Smile


I often keep myself busy .I join many activities such as sport, travel, shopping, spa,concert, theatre, bawa with friends, dancing .

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27.09.2011, 07:34 quote

cindia
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I often keep myself busy .I join many activities such as sport, travel, shopping, spa,concert, theatre, bawa with friends, dancing .

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jeux en flash game cheats

 

27.09.2011, 15:12 quote

scriptwriter

Treat it the same way as dealing with a broken fart...

 

27.09.2011, 19:01 quote

darkmistress
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A bottle of red wine, candle light, and Ville Valo's voice to confort me... The next morning I am a new person in shreach of a new love...

 

27.09.2011, 19:07 quote

darkmistress
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Candle light, a bottle of red wine, and Ville Valo's voice to confort me...

 

08.10.2011, 19:56 quote

mrgadd
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scriptwriter wrote:
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Jump on Flirtbox and find yourself another woman

Finding a jump on Flirtbox has the same odds as a rat swimming up someone's toilet U-bend...


Now, now.. There's no need to hurt my feelings :'(

 

09.10.2011, 01:48 quote

zacktelstar
zacktelstar Joined: 15 Feb 2009 Posts: 838 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Edinburgh
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mrgadd wrote:
scriptwriter wrote:
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Jump on Flirtbox and find yourself another woman

Finding a jump on Flirtbox has the same odds as a rat swimming up someone's toilet U-bend...


Now, now.. There's no need to hurt my feelings :'(


so there's an each way bet...squat pressed on porcelain; laptop primed, awaiting the bite!
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09.10.2011, 02:32 quote

scriptwriter

Lay naked in the bath with your eyes closed and fiddle with your nipples and winkie imaginging it's your ex gf and how she used to rim your ringpiece, then think of all the sexual things she'll currently be doing to the guy she's replaced you with and never be giving you a second's thought and how much more she loves him than you and how much better looking, 'bigger', fitter, younger than you he is, more well monied, better at making her laugh than you... then go limp, get angry, plan to kill her and the guy and her family and any kids involved... then look her and the guy up via Google, become even more enraged when you see her with her mates out clubbing and laughing and the guy all over her, then play with yourself to some porn, go to bed, don't sleep, do this over and over daily for several weeks, then think to yourself she's a useless wanker and simply a type of walking condom and that the guy's a complete tosser to wind up with a slapper like her, then laugh at his misfortune, calm down, go back online and be lined up with yet another ass hole who will dump on you... then another... then even more... then... give up. This is normal processing for many of us, allegedly!!!!!!!

 
 
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