1) a good sense of humour/personality
2) honest
3)good looking
4)clean (showers at least once a day)
5)smells nice
6)independant


So honestly - money is the last thing i'd look for in a man - although i'll be perfectly honest here, he would need to have a job, no matter if it was minimum wage

Me too.
Money doesn't interest me all that much.
Heck, we'd all like a bit more hey not saying I actually *want* to live under charing cross bridge in a cardboard box, but I probably would for love......I believe in equality between the sexes when it comes to money in this day and age - and hey I went to the pub with a chap tonight and he let me buy the first round - rock on!

well its just that some girls expect to live a life of luxury when spouting "i need security" marlarky, then go to shop everyday of the week, then expected to be treated like royalty, then dump a person when the cash runs out or make a miserly excuse in marriage to divorce a person

To answer the original thread question:

- Money / property / car
- A nice shirt
- Mindreading ability



Seriously though, i think its all about how far into a relationship you go. If you are just going out with a girl, then you will find some girls arent that bothered if you dont have lots of money / property / a flash car, but if the relationship gets serious (i.e to the point of wanting to settle down and live together), then i definately think wealth becomes a major issue for alot of women. I suppose it is only natural, as women instinctively want to be with someone who can care and provide for them materialistically as well as emotionally, and for their kids (if they decide to have any).

I think the best way to get any woman to like you is to tell them you collect smurfs...........

(This might be why I'm single though)

I tell you the truth and this might not be well recieved............

I don't give a shit........that's my answer.............Don't like me because I don't have enough cash? Your loss........Don't like me because I can't quite live up to your stand up comedian act? Your loss........Etc Etc Etc....

Basicly I take everyone as they come good with the bad etc and I hopefully will meet someone that does the same. I am true to myself and I don't try and change people.

I don't want casual sex did too much of that when I was younger lol........erm moving on swiftly.....So that leaves me with wanting someone I can love and adore and hopefully recieve the same. If I do meet that special person I want them to like me for being ME! Not because I have lots of money or because I asked for advice on a forum about the best way into a girls heart.......

All of this doesnt mean you dont try your best for someone you like or care about of course it's best to dress nicely and wash yourself etc. And it's always nice to be a little romantic isnt enough of it around anymore. But just try not to push things in a direction that isnt you.

So bottom line is be yourself, write an in-depth profile telling everyone about you. When you see a girl you would like to msg due to picture/profile etc make the effort read the profile and don't just say: Hi want to marry me? (Erm I have done this but only because I have a warped sense of humour).

If you don't get a lot of replies or no one seems to take an intrest well that's life dont take it personally go out socialise with your mates, see a nice girl in a bar? Ask her a question always a good opener and then tell her your name and take it from there. Example: Hi I was wondering if I should have worn my red high heels tonight with this suit.........By the way my name is Gav.

Now please dont use what I just said I just have an odd sense of humour but it was just to give you an idea.

Good Luck to you and all others out there looking for fun, love, or friendship.