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Home >> Advice >> Can you tell me what women are looking for in a man

21.08.2007, 19:37 quote

Anonymous

Jeggae wrote:
icelandicwolf wrote:
Jeggae wrote:
icelandicwolf wrote:
money, thats all they will ever care about...don't kid yourself that it's good looks or your charming personailty. It all boils down to money


I'd probably beg to differ, but obviously that is your experience. Although some might be



sorry but no, if they can't milk you for every peeny you have then they won't be interested.


Thats not my experience in the real world mate. I know loads of women that are after anything else but money. Also some women i talk to on the net earn more money then me.

Obviously you must have had a bad experience or two.


sorry, don't believe you....every woman i know, and i do mean every are only after one thing....

 
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21.08.2007, 19:39 quote

Anonymous

im not, ive got my own money thanks, and i really dont like people paying for me

 
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21.08.2007, 19:42 quote

Anonymous

well then maybe i have met all the wrong people, never mind it won't matter soon.

 
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21.08.2007, 19:43 quote

Anonymous

cheekymunkey wrote:
Jeggae wrote:
The first thing they're looking for is a nice photo. If you have that one cracked you could be halfway to a meeting. But wont help when you actually do meet though.


I think the first thing is ....'Having ''A'' photo. good or bad in your opinion as this is subjective, and if your saying that having a good photo doesnt help when you do meet, then why dont you have a pic on here v Confused


I don't want to go into detail about this, but I might do one day.

My point is, if you put up a good picture [a bit too good], the other person could well be disappointed when they meet you.

As for me not having a photo, I'm not really interested in meeting women off the net for dating, maybe the meets though. I'm only here for the message boards, and if anyone don't ant to talk to me because I haven't got a photo, I don't care.

I definitely stand by what I posted.

 
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21.08.2007, 19:47 quote

Anonymous

icelandicwolf wrote:
Jeggae wrote:
icelandicwolf wrote:
Jeggae wrote:
icelandicwolf wrote:
money, thats all they will ever care about...don't kid yourself that it's good looks or your charming personailty. It all boils down to money


I'd probably beg to differ, but obviously that is your experience. Although some might be



sorry but no, if they can't milk you for every peeny you have then they won't be interested.


Thats not my experience in the real world mate. I know loads of women that are after anything else but money. Also some women i talk to on the net earn more money then me.

Obviously you must have had a bad experience or two.


sorry, don't believe you....every woman i know, and i do mean every are only after one thing....


ha ha ..whether you believe me or not, it is true Wink

 
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21.08.2007, 23:36 quote

Anonymous

Jeggae wrote:


As for me not having a photo, I'm not really interested in meeting women off the net for dating, maybe the meets though. I'm only here for the message boards, and if anyone don't ant to talk to me because I haven't got a photo, I don't care.

I definitely stand by what I posted.


didnt you say last month that you were chatting to some woman on another site who you were getting on well with, but when you put your pic up she blew you out? i remember reading that and thinking it would have saved a lot of time and hassle to put a pic up in the first place, then if she was gonna run because she didnt like the pic she would have done so at the start. obviously its your choice, but i thought from the way you were talking about her at the time that you was interested in meeting her and that would count as internet dating perhaps. maybe i am wrong...

 
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22.08.2007, 09:30 quote

Anonymous

scottie69 wrote:
Jeggae wrote:


As for me not having a photo, I'm not really interested in meeting women off the net for dating, maybe the meets though. I'm only here for the message boards, and if anyone don't ant to talk to me because I haven't got a photo, I don't care.

I definitely stand by what I posted.


didnt you say last month that you were chatting to some woman on another site who you were getting on well with, but when you put your pic up she blew you out? i remember reading that and thinking it would have saved a lot of time and hassle to put a pic up in the first place, then if she was gonna run because she didnt like the pic she would have done so at the start. obviously its your choice, but i thought from the way you were talking about her at the time that you was interested in meeting her and that would count as internet dating perhaps. maybe i am wrong...


gone

 
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22.08.2007, 11:58 quote

Anonymous

Jeggae wrote:
*all that stuff*


Okay

 
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22.08.2007, 12:43 quote

Anonymous

scottie69 wrote:
Jeggae wrote:
*all that stuff*


Okay


hmm..good mod ??

I suppose you and your idiot mates are always going to pull me up, Used to it.

if you need to know anything else just ask.

 
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22.08.2007, 13:01 quote

Anonymous

Jeggae wrote:
hmm..good mod ??


good mood or good mod?

if its good mod, i really couldnt care less about being a mod, i didnt ask to be one and i certainly wont be worried if it was removed from me. I dont feel i act any different being a mod than i did when i wsnt a mod. Otherwise my mood is good thanks Very Happy


Jeggae wrote:
I suppose you and your idiot mates are always going to pull me up, Used to it.


what idiot mates? not a very nice thing to say, i wasnt pulling you up, i just noticed you keep saying your not interested in meeting a woman for internet dating and then talk about a woman you seemed quite keen on off another site, i was just a bit confused as to what your stance was as i found that to be a bit conflicting, but like i said, i may have it wrong.

the last bit "okay " was meant in good humour...but no worries Confused

 
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22.08.2007, 13:39 quote

Anonymous

annmarie5988 wrote:
Was just guna ask if i had missed something when i saw Jegs, somewhat, aggressive response, but you have explained yourself pretty well Scottie ........... x

Why do people post on a site if they think certain people are 'idiots' and other people aren't allowed an opinion ??????????? just a question, dont bite my head off please ................ x


You have a pm Anne-Marie.

 
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22.08.2007, 13:47 quote

Anonymous

scottie69 wrote:
Jeggae wrote:
hmm..good mod ??


good mood or good mod?

if its good mod, i really couldnt care less about being a mod, i didnt ask to be one and i certainly wont be worried if it was removed from me. I dont feel i act any different being a mod than i did when i wsnt a mod. Otherwise my mood is good thanks Very Happy


Jeggae wrote:
I suppose you and your idiot mates are always going to pull me up, Used to it.


what idiot mates? not a very nice thing to say, i wasn't pulling you up, i just noticed you keep saying your not interested in meeting a woman for internet dating and then talk about a woman you seemed quite keen on off another site, i was just a bit confused as to what your stance was as i found that to be a bit conflicting, but like i said, i may have it wrong.

the last bit "okay " was meant in good humour...but no worries Confused


Removing someones post in a quote and writing *all that stuff* isn't humorous its sarcastic and childish. But due to the delicate nature of some of it, I regret posting it in reply to someone who obviously hasnt grown up.

 
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22.08.2007, 13:56 quote

Anonymous

I can see now that putting *all that stuff* might not have come across very well, but in all honesty i only did that because there was alot there and i didnt want it taking the whole page up, sorry if you took it the wrong way, that wasnt the intention.

I am not going to get into some petty argument over it, i asked a valid question, about the my confusion of your posts. But thanks for your opinion on "my friends" and my evolutionary status, i can accept that you have your opinion of me, because it doesnt actually matter.

 
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22.08.2007, 17:51 quote

Anonymous

I'm obviously the idiot mate that Jeg is refering to Rolling Eyes because I question him to ?? never mind .. All I was saying about having a pic up might give you a better chance of chatting and possibly meeting someone around you age group.

 
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22.08.2007, 19:37 quote

Anonymous

cheekymunkey wrote:
I'm obviously the idiot mate that Jeg is refering to Rolling Eyes because I question him to ?? never mind .. All I was saying about having a pic up might give you a better chance of chatting and possibly meeting someone around you age group.


I'll answer this...

I'm telling you this because you are constantly questioning my motives as to why I'm here, and I keep telling you its mainly for the message boards,

For the past few months I have been trying this net dating lark and I've totally gone off it.

But I'll give you two examples of why I'm pissed of with my fleeting experience of 'dating' on the net that's happened this week. Two women from another site much busier then this one.

One women contacted me because we were having a laugh on the other forum, at her instigation we arranged to go for a meal and a movie after the weekend. Few days ago I was flirting with another women, and this women tried to but in. Then she started ranting and raving on the board about me preferring the other women to her blah blah [probably true]..then told me never to contact her again. Which I never did in the first place anyway wtf. Now she just has digs at me on the forum.

Another women contacted me a few weeks ago and we have exchanged a few messages, then she took something I said that had nothing to do with her the wrong way and sent me this message a few days ago:

Hi There,
Not sure, When it says, Jeggae (not interested) if it means me, if it does all the best to you, Wont contact you again.

It didn't mean her at all, so I messaged her to put it straight, but I haven't heard nothing back from her.
Probably a loony.

I don't have problems in real life and I'm not interested in having them on the net with women who have emotional baggage. I don't contact women except for things relating to the message boards, and I'm not really interested in dating women off the net. But they contact me.

I'm only really interested in one night stands in real life and I can get them when I want, but I've made it plain to loads of women on the net when they contact me what I'm after, but obviously they want relationships. But I am now finished with love and never going to have it again..probably.

I came on this site because I stumbled on the message board and liked it, so I joined a few other dating sites to look at the forums, and now I use one other forum as well as this one.

This other site has loads of meets all over the country and I'm going to start going to a few of them to meet the people I chat too, and if this site has a meet and I'm welcome, I will go.

Obviously you don't know who you are going to meet, so I'm not writing anything off, and know I might start chatting to someone I like and might want more. But I'm not really looking for it.

I admit I did have a thing for brains plus beauty [Robyn] and maybe I was a bit negative with her, and blew any chance I had with her [if any]. Which I do regret. She is a lovely women and I hope she has found someone. She is the one that started my little episode with net dating.

Now I am finished with online dating and am not interested in women on the net for anything else but friendship.

I'm only posting this to see if I can get you off my back on this matter.

 
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