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16.06.2006, 21:42 quote

Anonymous

im just wondering what sort of age gap people think is ok, for example im 31, would a girl in her early 20's consider going out with someone of my age..

i personally wouldnt be bothered to much about the age gap but i know afew people who might, ive been out with afew who are younger than me, about 4 to 5 years and also abit older.. last GF was 37/38.


so whats youre opinion.. ?

 

16.06.2006, 23:47 quote

Anonymous

i think age gap is stupid, if you feel for someone no matter what age, then go for it but in our society people always think so many things are taboo, like an older man going with a much younger woman and vice versa. i see guys in there late 20 all the way to my age. so dont let taboos stop anyone from enjoying life

 

17.06.2006, 04:28 quote

Anonymous

once over 18 and fully developed age doesnt matter. Very Happy

So long as both are comfortable with it.

 

17.06.2006, 06:55 quote

Anonymous

Age does not matter. me personally i like men in their 30's but it think it may be more to do with being on the same wave length. but i would not think twice about age whever they be 18 or 40 its all to do with the chemistry and clicking in personality

 

17.06.2006, 07:27 quote

Anonymous

SexyDan wrote:
once over 18 and fully developed age doesnt matter. Very Happy

So long as both are comfortable with it.


I agree with this guy.

 

17.06.2006, 18:34 quote

Anonymous

I was 19, and saw a 36 year old lass for a year. No biggy, but very hard to continue a full relationship.

 

18.06.2006, 08:24 quote

Anonymous

age is just a number. im 22 and one of my exes is 37. i personally like older men. they know how to treat a woman. and older men know what they want... they dont mess ya about as much as the young stud with shit to prove. get me?

 

18.06.2006, 12:28 quote

Anonymous

almostpurrrfect wrote:
age is just a number. im 22 and one of my exes is 37. i personally like older men. they know how to treat a woman. and older men know what they want... they dont mess ya about as much as the young stud with shit to prove. get me?


Dont label all young guys like that! But yeh i do get ya! Very Happy

 

18.06.2006, 14:28 quote

Anonymous

almostpurrrfect wrote:
age is just a number. im 22 and one of my exes is 37. i personally like older men. they know how to treat a woman. and older men know what they want... they dont mess ya about as much as the young stud with shit to prove. get me?


The 37 yr old also likes younger woman because they don't pressure him to commit(marriage / kids etc). get me ?

 

19.06.2006, 00:40 quote

Anonymous

Love has no boundaries, and is it not love that we all seek?????

 

21.06.2006, 18:39 quote

Anonymous

maybe i should msg afew mid to low 20's then see what my lucks like.. not having any luck with ppl round my age :/

 

21.06.2006, 19:29 quote

Anonymous

kittie65 wrote:
Love has no boundaries, and is it not love that we all seek?????


This is very true. There seems to be many people having a go at the older person relationship thing. I know the last 3 woman i have seen have been late 5-10yrs older. This must be a trend.

All the mid to late 20 yr olds call the mid to late 20 yr olds of the opposite love "young studs with shit to prove" in masculine and "young divas with shit to prove" in the feminine.

A bit complicated really.

 

22.06.2006, 09:35 quote

Anonymous

Well, my ex boyfriend is 30, and i'm 18.

I don't have a problem with age at all.

 

29.06.2006, 21:02 quote

Anonymous

ABSOLUTELY happyness isnt a destination its a way of being...

when i was 19 i went out with a 33 year old, and when i was 35 a 23 year old...

i think age doesnt matter but i do think that there are more challenges the larger the age gap...

in my twenties i tended to go out with women in their thirties because they had more substance, now that i am myself in my thirties i am looking for somone similar age or slightly younger...

i think it is great to be open to all people whatever their age religion sexual persuasion etc... who knows how they could enrich your life if you dont try?!

Very Happy

 

24.07.2006, 13:34 quote

Anonymous

I dated a girl who was 20 while I was 40, we enjoyed it, although on a couple of occasions she was asked had she come out with he dad for evening Sad Crying or Very sad

 
 
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