ok my turn....Skraug it seems like you are just here to vent yourself...I have been unemployed for 2 yrs now due to illness and circumstances, i am not the youngest on the forum by all means..but it has not prevented people from all over to want to get in touch with me..yes my profile states hospitality/tourism which is the profession i am in when working,,so when people do ask i tell them outright i am where i am at this moment but am looking for employment..ok i am a female and things are a little dif than males in that aspect...but if you are genuine and honestly seeking a better life then a woman will understand, and if she doesnt then she is only thinking materialisticaly and superfically and is that the type of woman you want. as you have read all around here there are more men than women and lots do not get that many replys...even the best looking, youngest and most professional...so chill let it come..reaccess your profile....
aluria

I have a friend in another state, that has a bullet next to his spine...he is going to school, working the little work he can, he is only 26 and very goodlooking...yes he has the same problem about women seeing him in his disabled situation, but he is not as cynical as you...he makes life as enjoyable as can be, takes it one day at a time...and yes to be blunt if he was older we would be closer than just friends cuz of his personality and outlook on life....reading your posts would turn me off if i lived there, its like you are trying to turn people away or just pity u...start posting on other threads and make someone else happy...you can not have friends, lovers or whatever until u are happy with yourself..as one of the moderators say "smile and the world smiles with you" and look at my little statement...live life as u would want life to treat you....Paul2004 asked me once how i can always smile and be happy with all the crap in my life...i replied why should i bring someone else into my misery, i try to make people happy and if they want to enjoy in that and be my friend, lover or whatever then so be it....

If you can't handle other peoples opinions and views, don't ask for them.

You mean.....I shouldn't ask a guy how much he earns the first time I speak to him?!

So that's where i'm going wrong......!

My life would be a lot easier if that happened.......

same here trace...i did not think i was being self righteous at all...i spoke of some one else who has a disablity and how he lives life..i spoke of not matter what crap you have on u, i spoke of if people are unhappy with themselves how can they make others happy...now if that is being self righteous i dont know...im telling u these forums are getting so petty and bullshitty its beyond me...and as to u Skraug, i dont give a shit whether u speak to me or give me hell..u asked for opinions and i was honest as to the way i saw u coming off on this thread.....beleive me i have been around on here and in life alot longer than u have buddy boy..