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Responsing to the original q: Does age matter?

Three weeks ago I would have said no, but I surprised myself one night going out...

Was flirting heavily with this really pretty girl, and we got to talking. I asked what she did, and she was taking her A-levels, "but she was 18". I just looked at her astonished and said that that would make the age gap 12 years...

"But we'll just pretend I'm 22 and you're 27...", she said.

And I just couldn't do it. Walked away.

I guess I've grown up at some point...

So yeah, age matters. Now.

When I was 18 and was picked up by a 28 yo it didn't... So... The answer... I don't know!

I've not read the thread though...

My opinion is that.. if it works for you and whomever.. age should not be an issue..and is legal of course..
I've just been in relationship with man ten years younger than me..
Only problem was he hasn't the same energy levels as I, and wants to sit and watch TV every night..
I want to be out having fun and gigging and he just bored me..
You'd think me being the older by a decade, I'd be more the likey candiate to settle infront of TV in a pair of fluffy slippers..
Never gonna happen..

ok, yes Tony is only 5 years younger than me, but i do have this cop in san diego that we have been friends for a long time....well last nite he, I and a bunch of us were playing on the poker tables and things got a little ummm,er,well sexually heated as it always does during gutter hour there. He is only 31 and we emailed pics back and forth, lets put it this way OMG what a sexy little stud he is...Italian/Irish and if i wasnt with Tony i would be heading for San Diego at this time....Wow this guy thnks i am sexy as hell too and we do have some good conversations besides the sexual overtones lol. and his ex wife was my age so he does not worry about the age, she was the one lol........so as far as age gap goes....hell with it if the feeling is mutual i say go for it and have a blast

When i was 21 i met a 35 year old ,believe it or not we lasted for six years,but we did have aour problems then again who didnt.
Last relationship there was 4 years difference,,she was younger and the maturity level wasnt even close.
Cant help but think that the last 15 years have all been for nothing.
Summary...
Can a age gap work.
Depends on the persons involved.

There was a time i wouldn't have looked twice as someone younger than myself. Recent events have opened my eyes and made me realise that age really is just a number and i now have a much wider range of choices