I think most guys would say they want the woman to be herself and not pretend to be something they are not.

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when i meet a girl its for compitment, im look for girls that arent trying to get laid and are sensible. would you date someone that wore nothing and grinded against anything? i want to know that i can let my girlfriend go out with out getting raped because she looks easy. as in wearing hardly anything and trying to hard to be sexy.

import things are

body language
been them selves
enjoying them selves but not laying it out on a plate

This is a very personal thing but:

Independence - I find independence a very attractive quality. I want a partner to be able to go out without me, knowing I'm not going to be ringing every 10 minutes asking where she is, and I enjoy having the same courtesy extended to me. I can love someone without wanting to own them. Also I prefer independence in tastes, music, art, politics etc. I don't want my partner to assume my identity. I need someone to argue with and turn me onto new things.

Intelligence - Not a MENSA certificate, just the ability to reason and articulate.

Passion - I'm thinking a Wuthering Heights sort of passion. I like intensity, as long it has an off switch (see independence).

Humour - if you don't find the person you're with funny (preferably when they're trying to be funny) there's no hope.

Sexiness - This is completely subjective. It's about the way a person carries themselves. I can't articulate what 'it' is, but I've seen girls of pretty much all shapes and sizes who have it, it's not limited to a certain height or weight.

Well all id say is we are as individual as u girls, obvious i know but that is just a piece of the whole picture, there is no standard thing blokes want if there was it would be easy and we'd all be on here answering your question the same way, so stop this im a minger crap, chin up, and keep your self dignity o.k. you have been told (big pair of tits is always nice though) soz i couldn't resist!!

A pulse, and a passport to show she's legal.

I've really let my standards slip.

attention and someone who wont cheat on you and tries to make the relationship work

Well I can only speak for myself, but what I want in a woman is firstly, obviously, she has to look and smell ok, should class themselves as 'a few extra pounds' (which means they're not skinny or fat, but comfortable with themselves), but also it's a bit deeper than looks.
Once I get attracted to someone I need to know that she isn't gonna start trying to get me to do stuff that I don't have an interest in, or stop me doing the things I AM interested in! I need to know that we can happily have little or no contact for a few days without getting worried that either of us has lost interest. She should be fairly intelligent (not a scientist etc but at least be able spell properly etc when not pished, and have an understanding of 'how things work'), and she should have a good sense of humour (that doesn't mean telling jokes all the time, or laughing at everything, but should be able to at least watch e.g. Seinfeld without needing jokes explained).

She should also fully understand that I am an arse for the following reasons;
I forget stuff.
I don't get emotional about things.
I can make a hurtful comment without even realising it, until explained several days later
I like cars, I like watching motor racing on the tele.
I enjoy an occasional 9 holes of golf.
I enjoy smoking and drinking, maybe I should cut down a little, but don't try to encourage me to.
Although I'm 41 tomorrow I am still a kid at heart.
People say I like to moan about things - Well, I think I just say what everyone else is thinking usually!
I don't go to the cinema - I have a short attention span and have difficulty even watching a film all the way through at home - thank goodness they repeat films several times on cable.
I don't dance. Ever. Except for in the house by myself, when i'm pished.

And it's probably much the same for most guys - the list might differ in places but that's how it is.
Basically girls, if you like the look of a guy, and you can happily accept his faults without trying to change him, then it's worth a shot

yeah i'm almost human.
I do have an extra bone in my foot that other people don't, but i think that just makes me a mild freak.