Everybody reacts in different ways so there can't be any right way to do things...!

I prefer it if a girl makes it really obvious if she likes me! She doesn't have to come right up and ask me, but it is nice if she doesn't leave any doubt in my mind. I am such a coward who doesn't like to risk having his ego damaged in any way! I like to know what the answer is before I ask the question

Going by the majority of answers on this board.. I think I may need to change tactics.

Im shy though, so it might be too hard to change the habit of a lifetime.

www.google.com "should girls come onto fellas"

I thought women always made the first move just kidding. Ever heard the saying "Those who dare win?" Well there you go . Have you tried the straight foward approach. How about going over to someone and just introducing yourself. Hi my names " " I just thought Id come over and talk to you because I like the look of you. You might find out they are boring or stupid or both and talking to them is the only way to find out. You dont have to try hitting on them staight away, just talk to them like an adult. Ask yourself this how frustrated do you feel when you go home and said nothing, but wish you had. Even if they say Oh I have a g/f or b/f thats ok you can still have a chat with them and at the end say it was really nice to meet you etc. At least this way you also make friends and they will have friends who might be single. I know I make it sound easy but ask yourself this have you ever really tried it ? Better to live one day as tiger than a 1000 yrs as a sheep, did that make any sense. There is always the other slightly more cheesy approach. Go up to person and say I know someone who would be really good for you would you like their phone number? If they say yes give them your phone number. If they ask what are they like describe yourself if they notice they are quite clearly on the ball if they dont at least you can give them a false number lol. Was this article any help YES / NO?

Yeah I think most men without a mental health condition would have probably realised they were freaking her out made thier excuses and left..

I think things probably work a bit differently in the UK

boswell27 wrote:

MsIbiza wrote: i think im a bit old fashion or maybe to shy but whats everyones opinion about girls coming onto lads, yea i know the lads will say YEAH defo we love it but i dont know if its because im shy or old fashioned, im scared to lol Hair toss: good. Leg cross: good. Full body display: good (This means you deliberately walk in front of him and let him get a good look at your body.) Excuse me, do you have: a) the time? b) a cigarette? c) any idea where the nearest bank machine is? All good. Can you tell me: a) Where all the other hotties hang out? b) What people do around here for fun? c) If this seat is free. Also all good. Here's my phone. Please call me sometime. I think you're really hot, cute whatever. Bad Bad Bad. If you've done all of the above and he ain't biting, he is either not interested or too feeble to take a hint. Either way, you lose. Capiche? Of course there are exceptions to every rule, but those are the rule.

Yes, please do, I know you are not supposed too! But not all us guys know if you are interested or not!

Some of us are confused by you lot, and a little naive (I Am) so it would be nice just to know you are interested, instead of us making a twit out of our selves LOL

It depends on the woman. If you have the balls to then good on you. I did with my boyfriend but thats because ive spent my whole life with men saying "your out of my league" which is total bollocks. Nothing horrible has ever happened to me when i made the first move and now i have a bloke because i did. You just have to be confident in yourself i suppose.

well said Nixy