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08.06.2007, 01:47 quote
I've heard that if a guy wants something, he's not afraid to get it. But what if he doesn't know what he wants??
08.06.2007, 07:45 quote
| MsIbiza wrote: |
i think im a bit old fashion or maybe to shy but whats everyones opinion about girls coming onto lads, yea i know the lads will say YEAH defo we love it but i dont know if its because im shy or old fashioned, im scared to lol  |
I have the same problem MsIbiza... I'm shy so the moment I fancy a guy half of my brain suddenly shuts down
I also like the fact that I prefer a guy to show interest in me but in a relaxed not pushy way...otherwise I get too nervous, blush and get embarassed!!!
However I also think that it has to be a 50/50 thing between men/women, if there's an interest, both need to do something about it....it's the first step the most difficult one but after that, you just play by ear!!!!
08.06.2007, 13:04 quote
| jda87 wrote: |
| I've heard that if a guy wants something, he's not afraid to get it. But what if he doesn't know what he wants?? |
I don't think thats true. Some guys and girls know what they want, but don't go for it because of being shy. The fear of rejection is a huge factor for not approaching someone.
And Jda87- you look so familiar...
09.06.2007, 02:40 quote
| are87 wrote: | ||
I don't think thats true. Some guys and girls know what they want, but don't go for it because of being shy. The fear of rejection is a huge factor for not approaching someone. And Jda87- you look so familiar... |
Just so you know, you disproved your own invalidation of the veracity of my statement. The fact that you said "some guys and girls know what they want" implies that others don't. So if we're going that route, then what I said is still true... and you seem familiar too. HMMMM.
09.06.2007, 14:22 quote
| jda87 wrote: | ||||
Just so you know, you disproved your own invalidation of the veracity of my statement. The fact that you said "some guys and girls know what they want" implies that others don't. So if we're going that route, then what I said is still true... and you seem familiar too. HMMMM. |
But you stated that "I've heard that if a guy wants something, he's not afraid to get it" which is a generalized statement about men. I just said some know, but don't go for it which I have seen happen. Not everyone has the business mentality that you seem to have (want it and get it) and no need to get all defensive. Cazzo!
And I miss you...
09.06.2007, 18:37 quote
| jda87 wrote: | ||||
Just so you know, you disproved your own invalidation of the veracity of my statement. The fact that you said "some guys and girls know what they want" implies that others don't. So if we're going that route, then what I said is still true... and you seem familiar too. HMMMM. |
Nope, not true, you have taken 1/2 of her sentence, the part that suits your argument, and treated it as a whole. In the process, though, you have also altered the meaning.
Anyway, I think it's more likely there's no single reason that always stops someone going for a person that they fancy for whatever reason. I know I've not gone for people I've fancied for all sorts of different reasons, rather than a single reason. One time I totally blanked a girl who'd taken an interest in me, because I was pre-occupied with the fact I'd had hiccups all day & wasn't really in the mood as a result. Another time it was because I just wasn't interested in pulling anyone for another reason I won't bore you with. Sometimes it's been a fear of rejection that's stopped me going for someone, but then other days I just don't care.
09.06.2007, 21:25 quote
| Baggiebhoy wrote: |
You know, I think these two know each other  |
Nope, I don't know her at all... its just my best friend and roommate
09.06.2007, 21:33 quote
| are87 wrote: | ||
Nope, I don't know her at all... its just my best friend and roommate |
lmao maybe you two could have your own chicago flirtbox meetup?
09.06.2007, 23:01 quote
| scottie69 wrote: | ||||
lmao maybe you two could have your own chicago flirtbox meetup? |
Good idea!
15.06.2007, 19:05 quote
yeah they should, its all about equality these days! It's old fashioned letting the guy do everything.
16.06.2007, 03:55 quote
| are87 wrote: | ||||||
But you stated that "I've heard that if a guy wants something, he's not afraid to get it" which is a generalized statement about men. I just said some know, but don't go for it which I have seen happen. Not everyone has the business mentality that you seem to have (want it and get it) and no need to get all defensive. Cazzo!
And I miss you... |
I miss you too...but i still think i'm right.
16.06.2007, 04:14 quote
Love the new pic by the way are87 - meant to say this when it was new!
Hi jda87 you have a very cool pic while I talking photos.
Can I just say I wished everyone came onto everyone more online and offline. I have tried to chat men up in my yoof and it was fun. No I don't bother cos I am lazy. I would like more men to chat women up too. Maybe it is just the places are go...everyone is crippled by shyness!
16.06.2007, 06:14 quote
I believe life is too short so if I like a guy I go up to them, some like it some dont but hey if u wait for some blokes to make the first move u'd be alone for ever.
Saying that i have been told im a tad intimiadating
16.06.2007, 10:31 quote
| Bams wrote: |
| Love the new pic by the way are87 - meant to say this when it was new!
Hi jda87 you have a very cool pic while I talking photos. Can I just say I wished everyone came onto everyone more online and offline. I have tried to chat men up in my yoof and it was fun. No I don't bother cos I am lazy. I would like more men to chat women up too. Maybe it is just the places are go...everyone is crippled by shyness! |
When I was young, women only really went around in two's, never used to drink much and always wanted to be chatted up by men. It was very easy to chat women up.
I noticed about 15 years ago women started going around in big gangs and drinking loads of alcohol, and not really open to be chatted up. Not as easy as it was to chat women up imo.
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