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Home >> Advice >> I like a guy and mssed it up!
04.03.2007, 10:39 quote
Does this mean my Toffee Cisps are safe? Woohoo!
I hope it goes well. Some people just need a different amount of time to work things out in their own head and then take action on what they decide. As long as there's honesty there's hope.
04.03.2007, 10:48 quote
guitargirl wrote: |
We havent spoken in 6 weeks though..is that not a bit long? |
Nah I had a relationship for over 3 years where on one occasion we split up for over 4 months. Didn't speak to or see each other in all that time. Didn't take much to fall back into bed
04.03.2007, 10:58 quote
guitargirl wrote: |
We havent spoken in 6 weeks though..is that not a bit long? |
You'll only know answers by asking questions.
And if you don't like the answers, well at least you'll know the truth. And maybe you can just be friends?
04.03.2007, 11:30 quote
Right we fell out..becuase...we were going along great, clicked immensely etc and he was given me big signs of "OMFG YOURE GREAT" then me being a cancerian and a woman I needed to need who I was and where I was so in the middle of a text relay we had one w/e, he text me to tell me how amazing I am, and i text him back "would it be inapprpriate if i considered myself your gf?" YER YER I KNOW what a totally tit I made of myself. Then after that we tapered off to nothingness. I totally taunted myself over it.
Anyway then on the Monday I sent him a right nasty message saying basically if you dont want to see me, say so, grow a f*cking backbone.
Then I screwed myself up over that, and sent him a long apology blaimed it on bad motorway drive into work etc... he told me it was cool and we hadnt fallen out and that he would call, he never did.
That was 6 weeks ago.
But I dont know what to think with Mark phoning me last night? Im so f*cked on these happy pills, I seem to have no emotions at the mo, not happy, nor sad just a plateau of nothingness.
What he says it wasnt the text that freaked him out, he was fine with it, he was sat there for days thinking about it? He said he never thought he'd meet someone like me and couldnt believe it when he did and that it was just typical that he'd go and f*ck it all up.
I dont know what to do or think
04.03.2007, 11:38 quote
Sounds like you're making a mountain out of a molehill there. You're obviously both interested still, so stop fannying around.
The fact that theres still interest there after six weeks should be a big clue.
Don't let the pills cloud your judgement. I did a few years on them myself (assuming we're talking the same kind of NHS brand happy pills) and they're the worst possible thing to let guide you in moments like this.
Get in there!
04.03.2007, 11:42 quote
chikhai wrote: |
Sounds like you're making a mountain out of a molehill there. You're obviously both interested still, so stop fannying around.
The fact that theres still interest there after six weeks should be a big clue. Don't let the pills cloud your judgement. I did a few years on them myself (assuming we're talking the same kind of NHS brand happy pills) and they're the worst possible thing to let guide you in moments like this. Get in there! |
04.03.2007, 11:51 quote
I sounds like hes patient and understanding enough, so capitalise on it.
People like that are a rare breed. Don't miss the boat on account of a little dodgy brain chemistry.
04.03.2007, 12:06 quote
http://download.yousendit.com/0F45F6606C75D687
Have a listen to this, its from his bands album, he's the guitarist, its a lovely song
04.03.2007, 12:07 quote
oh no, here we go
guitargirl wrote: |
BUt he's an aquarian and Im a cancerian..bad BAD mix!! |
04.03.2007, 12:10 quote
francy wrote: | ||
oh no, here we go
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04.03.2007, 14:01 quote
guitargirl wrote: |
BUt he's an aquarian and Im a cancerian..bad BAD mix!! |
Bugger, that's me out then. :/
Bottom line, if you don't take a chance what will happen? Me personally, it would play on my mind and not let up for a while. Wondering what I missed out on and then I'd beat myself up about it. If I took the chance and it didn't work out right or I later felt I made a bad call I'd learn from it and hopefully look back at the times it was good.
How easy would it be for you to walk away from it and not think about it?
Yeah, that's what I thought.
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