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06.12.2006, 21:23 quote
a while ago i started seeing this guy. he is gorgeouse and everything h could ever want in a guy. i am hooked.
problem is we both agreed at the start that it was just fun and company for each other as we where both just out of relationships. stupid me has feelings i shouldnt have. i know there is no way he is over his last girl and is def is not ready for another relationship.
so the question is "what do i do"
do i tell him how i feel or do i leave it in the hope that he might tell me he feels the same as me.
HELP. x
06.12.2006, 21:28 quote
ayrshire wrote: |
a while ago i started seeing this guy. he is gorgeouse and everything h could ever want in a guy. i am hooked.
problem is we both agreed at the start that it was just fun and company for each other as we where both just out of relationships. stupid me has feelings i shouldnt have. i know there is no way he is over his last girl and is def is not ready for another relationship. so the question is "what do i do" do i tell him how i feel or do i leave it in the hope that he might tell me he feels the same as me. HELP. x |
how about just telling him excately what you just told us..
06.12.2006, 21:36 quote
The thing is, if you tell him your true feelings, he may well break it off.
I think you should tell him, because you never know, and if you're not happy now, he could feel the exact same way and just not wanna say anything because he's thinking you'll push him away if he says anything like that.
06.12.2006, 21:39 quote
because i am scare of what he night say, i know myself he aint ready. the reason we spend s o much time toogether is because he missis the company. prob the things he and his ex use to do together. x
06.12.2006, 21:41 quote
i would be a little less available and see if he misses you then you will see what yo mean to him worth a shot?
06.12.2006, 21:42 quote
ayrshire wrote: |
because i am scare of what he night say, i know myself he aint ready. the reason we spend s o much time toogether is because he missis the company. prob the things he and his ex use to do together. x |
i meant..tell him how you feel, without expecting anything back of him..sounds like you good friends, so should be able to talk with him as one..
06.12.2006, 21:45 quote
because he might not feel te same then she be upset an may lose a mate daftee MEN
06.12.2006, 21:45 quote
loubylou wrote: |
i would be a little less available and see if he misses you then you will see what yo mean to him worth a shot? |
im not sure that will help i know he wants me there.just dont know why he wants me there if u know what i mean.
06.12.2006, 21:47 quote
KEVIN53846 wrote: | ||
i meant..tell him how you feel, without expecting anything back of him..sounds like you good friends, so should be able to talk with him as one.. |
ok so what i do is sit him down tell him how i feel and walk away, giving him the time to think about what i have said.
06.12.2006, 21:52 quote
loubylou wrote: |
i would be a little less available and see if he misses you then you will see what yo mean to him worth a shot? |
I'm with you Louby on this!
Finest way of finding out without forcing a conversation!
Just be prepared if he does cool off too!
06.12.2006, 21:53 quote
ayrshire wrote: | ||||
ok so what i do is sit him down tell him how i feel and walk away, giving him the time to think about what i have said. |
well doesnt have to be so clinical as that...the alternative is staying as you are? if you happy with that...
but hey...as looby said..i am just a man after all..lol
06.12.2006, 21:58 quote
KEVIN53846 wrote: | ||||||
well doesnt have to be so clinical as that...the alternative is staying as you are? if you happy with that... but hey...as looby said..i am just a man after all..lol |
lol being a mon actually helps a little in this case seen i am trying to find out if me telling a guy something like that will make him run a mile.
06.12.2006, 21:58 quote
KEVIN53846 wrote: | ||||||
well doesnt have to be so clinical as that...the alternative is staying as you are? if you happy with that... but hey...as looby said..i am just a man after all..lol |
PMSL, to be fair loubylou's first post had me in stiches. Any male (me included) if they like a girl won't leave her alone, whereas a woman does the opposite in the same situation. Makes me laugh to see how straight forward most men are, and just do something with hardly any thought, whereas a woman does the opposite.
06.12.2006, 22:03 quote
PMSL, to be fair loubylou's first post had me in stiches. Any male (me included) if they like a girl won't leave her alone, whereas a woman does the opposite in the same situation. Makes me laugh to see how straight forward most men are, and just do something with hardly any thought, whereas a woman does the opposite.[/quote]
ok so i should be more like u guys and just be straight forward with him. i am a honest person anyway so i think i am just gonna go for it and tell him anyway.
06.12.2006, 22:04 quote
The worst that can happen is only what's likely gonna happen anyway if you don't tell him?
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