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Home >> Love & Relationships >> In love?....or lust?
01.06.2006, 21:13 quote
There's a type of person we crave, and a type of person we love, although the two don't mix. Can someone tell me why? Or is this just how 'us humans are'?..Mmmmm, tricky!
01.06.2006, 21:31 quote
well i belive there is sum1 4 every1 out there!! and there is always sum 1 we lust after!! i now i lust after sum 1 lol ... but then i would love 2 love that sum 1 ... 
02.06.2006, 05:02 quote
Hello!!! u re beatifull!! u re right we thirst!! But why!! It and so it is clear!! Here for example you thirst for me or not it all the same then will leave on ружу!! Therefore now when you speak that you love it is necessary to speak seriously instead of...
02.06.2006, 05:05 quote
for example!! i hav't love but i can to love i can to feel but i can't to find my true love!!!
can u help me sweet girls!! i'll wait!!!
02.06.2006, 12:05 quote
i dont believe in love anymore been there done that its all bullshit woman nowdays are the same as men cheat or either have a dirty mind lol
02.06.2006, 12:51 quote
basically here is my take on the situation...
"Love" doesnt actually exist - it's not an emotion such as jealousy, greed, envy.....
"Love" is an umbrella term used to describe the Coalescence of several different emotions/feelings
"Love" is born out of trust, respect, honesty, lust, communication
Therefore you cannot experience love at first sight.
"Lust" however is a basic primeval physiological and psychological response.
It is intrinsic to all of us.
My theory is that we all initially experience "lust", which then is joined in time by "love" (the factors above).
As time passes "lust" is replaced by "love"
People then decide whether the feelings of security and companionship provided by "love" are enough for them - if not they seek an affair.
If it is, these people then grow old and grey together............
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02.06.2006, 17:17 quote
| timati wrote: |
| Hello!!! u re beatifull!! u re right we thirst!! But why!! It and so it is clear!! Here for example you thirst for me or not it all the same then will leave on ружу!! Therefore now when you speak that you love it is necessary to speak seriously instead of... |
Thanks for that, but I didn't quite get what you meant!! lol! Did any1 else?...
02.06.2006, 17:18 quote
"Love" doesnt actually exist - it's not an emotion such as jealousy, greed, envy.....
Maybe this guy has a point!
02.06.2006, 17:19 quote
| sam69 wrote: |
| i dont believe in love anymore been there done that its all bullshit woman nowdays are the same as men cheat or either have a dirty mind lol |
There is nothing wrong with people that have dirty minds!
But you are right about the bullshit, though.
02.06.2006, 18:10 quote
Number45> totally get your theory...why is everyone so negative here!!!! come on guys your alive your healthy and the world is your oyster!!!! get a grip!!!!!! THE WORLD IS FULL OF FABULOUS PEOPLE GET OUT THERE!!!!
02.06.2006, 18:14 quote
| flowerangelaura wrote: |
| Love is a load of bullshit, IMO.
Somebody always gets hurt.  |
Love cannot exist without pain.
That doesn't mean love is a bad thing, it's just that you need to learn how to control your other emotions, such as jealousy and lust.
Then it's plain sailing.
02.06.2006, 18:17 quote
| swissrebel wrote: |
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Love cannot exist without pain. That doesn't mean love is a bad thing, it's just that you need to learn how to control your other emotions, such as jealousy and lust. Then it's plain sailing. |
Sometimes the pain isn't worth it, though. I mean, love is great, but i just hate the pain that you seem to always get.
I don't get jealous easily.
02.06.2006, 18:18 quote
| flowerangelaura wrote: | ||
Sometimes the pain isn't worth it, though. I mean, love is great, but i just hate the pain that you seem to always get. I don't get jealous easily. |
If you're only getting pain, you're not with the right person.
I've been fairly lucky in love, so obviously my opinion is slightly biased.
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