see i was dumped recently and hurt a lot by it she goes its not you its me i'm marrying an american to get a green card some tells me it was my fault who can top this?

I think I can - I discovered that he was living with someone else, they'd bought a house and everything.

I confronted him and he claimed that he'd bought the house together with his mother! I had proof that he'd bought it was another woman who he was living with! Men can be such idiots when they lie!

I'd been going out with him for 8 years at that stage - really messed up my final exams at the time and my trust for men!

yes i think you have won ouch i'm sorry to hear that are you ok now?[/b]

Yes thanks, it was years ago - he's married now to someone else.

I used to do business with him for quite a few years afterwards, I was determined to continue seeing him (not in a relationship sense) until it no longer hurt. And one day we were in a pub and he was going to fetch me a drink and I was watching him and I thought ... "nothing, I don't feel anything anymore" and that was it - I was over him and I stopped working with him (I owned a head-hunting consultancy and supplied staff for him)and never contacted him again!

How are you doing? It's not easy at first, but as they say - time is indeed a great healer.

We all cope differently.

Despite what we think after being treated like dirt, they are special people out there.

I just got dumped by my boyfriend of two years. We have one son already and im pregnany with the second lol He dumpde me for a thinner girl. I wasnt good enough for him. Happy new year lol

Without meaning to sound disrespectful, is there a 'nice' way to be dumped ?

i mean, lets face it, being dumped sucks arse, big time - especially if the excuse used is shit, i.e "it's not you, it's me".

Keep ya chin up though 'eh
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I kind of got dumped recently, and it hits your ego and isnt good. But I would never go back with anyone that dumped me, so find it best to just move on

Its their loss, there's loads of women around

I haven't been dumped, but I have found myself in a difficult position where an ex partner had lied and cheated and I had to do the right thing by me and my kids and leave him. Best thing I ever did! I may be single now but im happy x

Ex went to uni, we had this weekend planned for when she came back, I got everything ready, and she dumped me the night before she came back over the phone.

Ended up a lonely weekend in by myself

Ugh I feel horrible even thinking about this but I was going out with this guy for maybe 4/5 months. It wasn't working at all but I didn't want to break up with him because at the time, I just didn't know how to (I was like 18 or somethin). So instead, I played the TOTAL BITCH card! Everything bad I could do, I done without actually resorting to cheating or anything. Even now, 6 years down the line, when I see that guy around, I STILL feel so so so so terrible

i dumped my ex long term relationship by text messege. He made me feel ill when i looked at him, so i didn't wanna see his scrunched up face if i told him it was over.. heartless i know. Best thing i ever did though! however i did cry for about 40 minutes, mainly cos i dropped my tea over my leg.

I haven't been dumped but then again when they give you reasons to leave I guess that really is a sort of dumping isn't it! And well, it has been the best year of my life now and my kids are finally coming around to it!

Being dumped can't be fun, but being dumped by a partner moving into a gay relationship, I'm guessing, can be especially painful. Especially when none of the signs were there (e.g. mincing around and the love for soft furnishing [men] or insisting on humping only afer watching the horse racing with Clare Balding [women])

How do you rationalise that.

Just so there is no misunderstanding, I am speaking in the abstract here. This has never happened to me.

I was dumped once before though, obviously for someone richer, better looking and more accomplished than me. Fair enough I thought. You can't begrudge an upgrade.