Sorry for the subject heading here,but im getting very dissapointed on this site.
I have sent countless mails to various members of the opposite sex.
All to no avail...I wouldn't mind so much that if you send a message to someone and if they dont fancy you then fair enough,but personally if the shoe was on the other foot,then i would at least take the time and trouble to give that person a polite reply.
All my messages sent are polite and freindly,so i know it isnt my approach.
Now do we live in such a society now where people just dont simply care and cant be bother to reply,or is it me?
Im begining to wonder.
I for one am not going to put the site down ,,but from a personal point of view im begining to think that i am wasting my time.

It's a message, don't get so hung up about it, and besides the people you are messaging could have loads to look at. They do not owe you anything, do not know you and therefore if there is no reason to reply then why bother? Politeness? Seems all a bit pointless to me, why be polite when you are not going to be giving the person the answer they want?

If people don't reply then sod it, their loss, not yours.

I know the feeling and im frustrated by it too, but the problem is that there are so many men, on this site, that they outnumber the women ten to one. Some of those guys are spammers, sending derogatory or overtly sexual messages, and i guess that sometimes the women on here just delete the messages en masse, because they have too many to answer

You're probably getting no replies because your profile says you're just looking for sex.

Are you only messaging women whose profiles say they're also looking for no-strings sex?

Most women don't respond to messages from men whose profile has "no-strings fun" or "casual encounters" listed.

The women whose profiles say they're just looking for sex - read carefully. If they say they're looking for men OR women, they may be fake profiles. Also - check the last log-in. Half of the tits-out brigade in the Top 25 haven't logged in for a year or two.

There are more men than women, that's a definate.

Some women do get lots of messages every day. The majority of those messages probably ask for sex. Or have crude comments in them.
I find that the very few messages I do get have both of the above.

Sorry, Jeggea, I have to disagree.

There are very few people on this board compared with the main site.

The guy's profile says he's looking for sex.

That's why he's getting no replies.

More good advice Kev,

Johnboy, do not give up hope yet mate. Just when you think there is nothing happening along comes someone that you just connect with!

Put on your pofile that you can be found in here, have some fun in the boards and if a lady likes the look of you then she will come here, read your posts and make her mind up that way!

Good luck and have patience.

I've had 3 messages by 3 different guys today along the lines of "hi, wanna chat?" Apart from being as brief as them by saying "no", what do they expect from me?! I've nothing to go on! so it's hardly surprising a lot of women don't reply.

This guy needs to go here

im new here tonight but you cant expect every lady you send a message to send you a reply....bide your time, be polite & even crack a joke to get their attention and set you apart from the rest of the guys that have messaged her and you with some patience you might make a break through

the key is to break the mould - im sure the ladies posting here would agree that getting one message that doesnt say "get them out" or "wanna chat" and instead tries to have a normal chat with them would go a long way