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19.10.2006, 17:05 quote

Anonymous

Ok, most of you know about my ex boyfriend, Kev. Anyway, we broke up a few months back because he cheated.

Since then he's been trying to get me back, thing is..he's got a girlfriend, yet he keeps freakin' pestering me. Telling me that he'll move back to Nottingham if i'd get back with him, and so on. Sad

I wouldn't even go there again. He showed his true colours a couple of weeks ago when he started getting abusive towards me.

Suggestions on how I can get him to back off, please?

 

19.10.2006, 17:13 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
Ok, most of you know about my ex boyfriend, Kev. Anyway, we broke up a few months back because he cheated.

Since then he's been trying to get me back, thing is..he's got a girlfriend, yet he keeps freakin' pestering me. Telling me that he'll move back to Nottingham if i'd get back with him, and so on. Sad

I wouldn't even go there again. He showed his true colours a couple of weeks ago when he started getting abusive towards me.

Suggestions on how I can get him to back off, please?


Depends on what you mean by abusive and what kind of person he is, but if the worse come to the worse..you could go and see the Police...that would be the last resort though.
Maybe you could get someone to warn him off...but that doesn't always work.

 

19.10.2006, 17:24 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
Ok, most of you know about my ex boyfriend, Kev. Anyway, we broke up a few months back because he cheated.

Since then he's been trying to get me back, thing is..he's got a girlfriend, yet he keeps freakin' pestering me. Telling me that he'll move back to Nottingham if i'd get back with him, and so on. Sad

I wouldn't even go there again. He showed his true colours a couple of weeks ago when he started getting abusive towards me.

Suggestions on how I can get him to back off, please?


tell him that you will speak to his girlfriend..apart from that..dont drink any coffee in the morning and let him have the full force of your anger..lol

 

19.10.2006, 17:25 quote

Anonymous

or...tell him your pregnant with another mans baby..

 

19.10.2006, 17:30 quote

Anonymous

Jeggea wrote:
Depends on what you mean by abusive and what kind of person he is, but if the worse come to the worse..you could go and see the Police...that would be the last resort though.
Maybe you could get someone to warn him off...but that doesn't always work.


I may be over reacting about the abusive thing...he wouldn't let me close the front door(because it would have been shutting him out) and pinned me up against it..then my mum came downstairs and he went away. Confused

 

19.10.2006, 17:31 quote

Anonymous

53846 wrote:


tell him that you will speak to his girlfriend..apart from that..dont drink any coffee in the morning and let him have the full force of your anger..lol


I don't think the bitch of a girlfriend would give a damn. She's the one he cheated on me with. ugh.

 

19.10.2006, 17:32 quote

Anonymous

53846 wrote:
or...tell him your pregnant with another mans baby..


Not such a great idea.

 

19.10.2006, 17:35 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
53846 wrote:
or...tell him your pregnant with another mans baby..


Not such a great idea.

Well if was me, i would tell him to ***** off, cheaters to me they dont have any second chances.
I guess these kind os people dont care about feelings of any1 just about them selfs, so why give them another chance!!!!
this is just my opinion Smile

GC

 

19.10.2006, 17:39 quote

Anonymous

GCypher wrote:
flowerangelaura wrote:
53846 wrote:
or...tell him your pregnant with another mans baby..


Not such a great idea.

Well if was me, i would tell him to ***** off, cheaters to me they dont have any second chances.
I guess these kind os people dont care about feelings of any1 just about them selfs, so why give them another chance!!!!
this is just my opinion Smile

GC


I'm not giving him another chance. He had his chance, and he blew it.

He just won't leave me alone Sad

 

19.10.2006, 17:52 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
GCypher wrote:
flowerangelaura wrote:
53846 wrote:
or...tell him your pregnant with another mans baby..


Not such a great idea.

Well if was me, i would tell him to ***** off, cheaters to me they dont have any second chances.
I guess these kind os people dont care about feelings of any1 just about them selfs, so why give them another chance!!!!
this is just my opinion Smile

GC


I'm not giving him another chance. He had his chance, and he blew it.

He just won't leave me alone Sad

im really sry and i can understand wot ur going tru or feeling at this point, but the best thing to do in these type of situation is just carry on with ur own life (like u probably have been trying to) and probably the best thing is just not even talk with the person in question, that might give him sum "hopes" or sumthing.
Another thing about the abuse i couldnt understand exactly wot kind of abuse but anyway things like that no way, but if already reach 2 that point already i guess the best here is going to the police.

GC

 

19.10.2006, 17:59 quote

Anonymous

GCypher wrote:
im really sry and i can understand wot ur going tru or feeling at this point, but the best thing to do in these type of situation is just carry on with ur own life (like u probably have been trying to) and probably the best thing is just not even talk with the person in question, that might give him sum "hopes" or sumthing.
Another thing about the abuse i couldnt understand exactly wot kind of abuse but anyway things like that no way, but if already reach 2 that point already i guess the best here is going to the police.

GC


I ignore his calls and texts, because I don't want to talk to him. I'm thinking about changing my number.

He's only normally in Nottingham at the weekends, rest of the time he's in Glasgow.

 

19.10.2006, 17:59 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
He just won't leave me alone Sad[/color]


Is it text messages, phone calls?

Get it all traced Laura (for proof), to the best of my knowledge it's a free service and you have the option then of prosecuting or not (obviously involves the police)

 

19.10.2006, 18:03 quote

Anonymous

Ringer2 wrote:
flowerangelaura wrote:
He just won't leave me alone Sad[/color]


Is it text messages, phone calls?

Get it all traced Laura (for proof), to the best of my knowledge it's a free service and you have the option then of prosecuting or not (obviously involves the police)


It is mainly messages and phone calls, unless he's in Nottingham. Then he likes to stay at his parents house(literally round the corner) and knock on the door every 3 hours!

 

19.10.2006, 18:07 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
Ringer2 wrote:
flowerangelaura wrote:
He just won't leave me alone Sad[/color]


Is it text messages, phone calls?

Get it all traced Laura (for proof), to the best of my knowledge it's a free service and you have the option then of prosecuting or not (obviously involves the police)


It is mainly messages and phone calls, unless he's in Nottingham. Then he likes to stay at his parents house(literally round the corner) and knock on the door every 3 hours!


Then maybe your only option is to involve the police???

 

19.10.2006, 18:07 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
Ringer2 wrote:
flowerangelaura wrote:
He just won't leave me alone Sad[/color]


Is it text messages, phone calls?

Get it all traced Laura (for proof), to the best of my knowledge it's a free service and you have the option then of prosecuting or not (obviously involves the police)


It is mainly messages and phone calls, unless he's in Nottingham. Then he likes to stay at his parents house(literally round the corner) and knock on the door every 3 hours!


the police wont bother with this..just change number and tell him to piss off..after a while he will..

 
 
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