Hello everyone


I don't understand why i cannot find one single person that is
attractive, smart and emotionally in tuned that actually posses a heart.
I'm not unattractive at all or a total bitch, I'm very down to earth. I made a profile on here to maybe find someone new to talk to become friends with. I've just left a really bad
relationship he treated me horribly he put me down all the time and fought with me about stupid things. I just wish i could find someone real.

^ roddle.

Thread of the year!

if your last relationship was a fail because he treated you like shit, then your next one will statistically fail too, because you'll treat your new partner like shit. Its not intentional apparently, it's just the way the brain works.. (defense mechanisms etc)


i'd love to know where these statistics come from mind you..
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It's a cliché, but MissJB is right. It seems like you search and search with no luck, then as soon as you stop trying the opportunities start popping up.

Relax and take your time

Just go out and get laid for a while.

Hit the party scene, have fun, use protection and see what happens.

You've a few years and a few miles yet before you should be considering settling down! Strange things happen though and maybe you'll meet someone and fall in love straight away.

I would recommend you do not jump straight into a relationship but instead take some time out and reflect on what happened and why. Don't let it consume your life!

http://www.buzzle.com/editorials/9-9-2005-76446.asp

The above has a LOT of useful information and you should spend a little time getting clued up so that next time you 'know' what you are really looking for. Most people jump into relationships without having the first idea what relationships are about, what to expect and what to give! love is fun but when it runs out the relationship normally hits the rocks with it...

As for someone putting you down... Well, maybe they were jealous or maybe they were simply control freaks.

All the best for the future.

Its rare to find someone with good looks and a good personality. Dont go for looks u will usually get hurt. Get to know someone before u go out with them. Dont go out looking to get laid cause u will get hurt. statistics clearly show that the ppl who r good looking and know it will cheat. While the ugly ppl who find it hard to find a partner will be a lot more loving and loyal. But they tend to be more clingy cause they dont want to lose anyone that shows any intrest in them. As for ppl who got abused as kids. most grow up and become very protective of kids and usually make very good partners. But u still have to be careful with them cause u might do something that reminds them of the abuse they had and snap and start abusing u. Only about 10% of kids who got abused abuse ppl when they grow up. the rest r usually very loving caring ppl who wouldnt hurt a fly cause they know what it feels like to be abused.

I can't juggle nor do a hand-stand, but I can write... is that any use?!