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06.12.2006, 23:04 quote

loubylou

yup i know all!!lol nah it was just a way of saving face in case he aint wanting more which would be obvious to see if you leave him to it make him realise what n who he misses really, its up to you hun and goodluck!!

 

06.12.2006, 23:15 quote

Anonymous

my opinon..why hang around hoping...find out what the score is so your not wasting time..then at least you can move on..

good luck whatever...

 

06.12.2006, 23:26 quote

loubylou

I think between us we just muddled her head up?

 

07.12.2006, 20:09 quote

Anonymous

loubylou wrote:
I think between us we just muddled her head up?

lol na am cool i know what to do now thanks. x

 

07.12.2006, 20:17 quote

Anonymous

good luck mrs Smile

 

07.12.2006, 20:19 quote

Anonymous

hate to say it but chances are this really IS a rebound thing.

 

07.12.2006, 20:23 quote

Anonymous

loubylou wrote:
because he might not feel te same then she be upset an may lose a mate daftee Rolling Eyes MEN

better than being a false relationship surely?! And who knows, he may feel the same?

 

07.12.2006, 20:38 quote

Anonymous

catlover2 wrote:
hate to say it but chances are this really IS a rebound thing.

i know it is a redound thing i was asking what i do about it. its ok im gonna talk to him on saturday when i see him.

i aint gonna be heart broken if he dont feel the same thats why i wanna find out just now before things do get to serious for me.

 

09.12.2006, 14:47 quote

Anonymous

pollyanna37 wrote:
loubylou wrote:
i would be a little less available and see if he misses you then you will see what yo mean to him worth a shot?


I'm with you Louby on this!

Finest way of finding out without forcing a conversation!

Just be prepared if he does cool off too!


From a guys point of view I wouldn't their is nothing that P***** me off more than when I think someone is playing some kind of game.
Somebody gave me the cold shoulder I'd probably walk away.
Long term honesty always seem to be the best policy, but honesty with a bit of tact!

 

09.12.2006, 15:38 quote

Anonymous

Ian39 wrote:
pollyanna37 wrote:
loubylou wrote:
i would be a little less available and see if he misses you then you will see what yo mean to him worth a shot?


I'm with you Louby on this!

Finest way of finding out without forcing a conversation!

Just be prepared if he does cool off too!


From a guys point of view I wouldn't their is nothing that P***** me off more than when I think someone is playing some kind of game.
Somebody gave me the cold shoulder I'd probably walk away.
Long term honesty always seem to be the best policy, but honesty with a bit of tact!


good to know there are still guys like you around!

 

09.12.2006, 16:18 quote

Anonymous

Smile Thank you Laughing

 

09.12.2006, 16:21 quote

Anonymous

Ian39 wrote:
Smile Thank you Laughing


you're welcome! I also believe in total honesty. unfortunately although i try to be tactful, there are some who don't like it but i say if you don't want to know the truth DON'T ASK!!

 

09.12.2006, 16:29 quote

Anonymous

catlover2 wrote:
Ian39 wrote:
Smile Thank you Laughing


you're welcome! I also believe in total honesty. unfortunately although i try to be tactful, there are some who don't like it but i say if you don't want to know the truth DON'T ASK!!


I've had my emotions played with in the past, and I'm no christian but, do unto others....
Plus I've never known peeps have a happy relationship built on dishonesty whether its good intentioned or not.
They say love is blind, I say if it is, what ever it is it aint love.

 

09.12.2006, 16:34 quote

Anonymous

Ian39 wrote:
catlover2 wrote:
Ian39 wrote:
Smile Thank you Laughing


you're welcome! I also believe in total honesty. unfortunately although i try to be tactful, there are some who don't like it but i say if you don't want to know the truth DON'T ASK!!


I've had my emotions played with in the past, and I'm no christian but, do unto others....
Plus I've never known peeps have a happy relationship built on dishonesty whether its good intentioned or not.
They say love is blind, I say if it is, what ever it is it aint love.


i know what you mean. i'm really gunshy because of guys who turned out to be real nasty liars. most recently with a guy i met online who seemed perfect then couldn't make up his mind how many kids he has. i suspect he might be married with/without kids. tired of getting burned

 

09.12.2006, 16:36 quote

Anonymous

catlover2 wrote:
Ian39 wrote:
catlover2 wrote:
Ian39 wrote:
Smile Thank you Laughing


you're welcome! I also believe in total honesty. unfortunately although i try to be tactful, there are some who don't like it but i say if you don't want to know the truth DON'T ASK!!


I've had my emotions played with in the past, and I'm no christian but, do unto others....
Plus I've never known peeps have a happy relationship built on dishonesty whether its good intentioned or not.
They say love is blind, I say if it is, what ever it is it aint love.


i know what you mean. i'm really gunshy because of guys who turned out to be real nasty liars. most recently with a guy i met online who seemed perfect then couldn't make up his mind how many kids he has. i suspect he might be married with/without kids. tired of getting burned


At least your testing the water and not getting completely scalded!

 
 
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