Hi,
Im reallynervous about meeting somone ive been chatting t ofor months. Has anyone founs somone there still with on here?xx

I have .. Its been nearly a year now we've been together - good luck with your meet and have fun

if you meet them in a public place, there isn't going to be a problem is there? If you're super nervous, take a friend along with you for support! They can always cue to leave if it's working out. My guess is that the bloke's going to be just as nervous as you!

Thanks, where going to meet in a bar then maybe go back to mine i feel like i know him well because weve been texting nearly everyday for about four months snd he hasnt tried to get me to have sex with him when we meet. He lives in Derby and i live near Liverpool. I hope it does go ok because im very shy hes 34 and im 20.x

Can i presume you have done more that just text him ??? i would never meet anyone without talking to them first, dont want to put you off meeting him, but just be careful ................... xx

No we have just been texting and swopped pictures he is very nice and geniune and dosent mind that im a single mum.

I'd have to say be careful like annmarie said, Why havent you chatted on the phone with him yet??

thanks cheeky, needed some help with this one ............ xx I would definately ask to talk to him on the phone before you meet, i would normally talk on his landline too .......... xx you seem to really like this guy and as you are fairly young, hope you take our advice ......... xx

Take pepper spray.

Personally, I wouldn't meet somebody without talking to them and without seeing them on cam(so you know it's them..)

I'd suggest taking a friend with you when you meet him.
If not..
Ask for his landline number(if he has one) and his address so you can give it to a friend/family member, he shouldn't have a problem with this if he's genuine.

You have to make sure you're safe!

Good luck if you do meet him

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Laura
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Confidence - Wear it like make up.

I have to agree with what the ladies above have said. You should definately chat to him on the phone first, or a webcam. And if he is reluctant, you gotta ask yourself why. If he as a phone to text, why not call ?

Anyhow, whatever you decide, be careful, and good luck ..

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Russ
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Take a chance .. it may be your only hope ..

Im really shy on the phone and would rather txt or just talk when we meet, but we will meet in a public place and if he seems nice go back to mine for a bit.

meet him! you never know what could happen =)

I hope you did meet him??? You only have one life!! take a chance it may be what you have been looking for......... just make it somewhere public.

Ooooooooooh and text one of your m8's his car reg number and don't forget to ask for 2 forms of id, one of which must have a picture of him