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10.09.2007, 06:06 quote

Anonymous

meet him but be careful.

Have to say I am in the same situation with someone off here, but we have spoken quite a bit, we are meeting tomorrow, and I am almost giddy with anticaption.....you know when you have met someone you have absoutely everything in common with, same tastes in everything.....shiny

 

10.09.2007, 06:48 quote

Anonymous

Good luck with your meet tomorrow - Hope it all goes well Very Happy

 

10.09.2007, 18:35 quote

CostaCork
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Fair play to everyone chipping in with the advice, some good advice there too.

Just a few things though EvE3, is he on here (flirtbox) if so, does he not post on the forum? Its just if he did, you wouldn't have just your opinion of him to go on, other people could be a judge of character as well.

I think you dead right meeting him if you like him, but its might be a good idea to bring a friend along, he would meet your friends sometime soon anyway if you do both hook up with each other so no harm in bring someone along.

 

12.09.2007, 17:18 quote

Anonymous

cheekymunkey wrote:
Good luck with your meet tomorrow - Hope it all goes well Very Happy



it did go very well..... Very Happy

 

13.09.2007, 07:12 quote

Anonymous

icelandicwolf wrote:
cheekymunkey wrote:
Good luck with your meet tomorrow - Hope it all goes well Very Happy



it did go very well..... Very Happy


Brill

 

29.09.2007, 13:38 quote

Anonymous

hi ev1 new to the forum Very Happy
i would love to know if u met up and how it went xx


i was chatting on msn to a bloke for 15 month ! (not from here)
we got on like a house on fire but he always had an excuse why we couldnt meet up !they sounded pretty genuine excuses at the time, his last excuse was his back as hes waiting for an op (so he said )
he was having scans and on waiting lists etc

anyway he said he didnt want to meet till he was sorted cos he wanted us to get together and be able to go out places and the rest ( he made it sound like his back was really bad so i believed him at 1st )
yeah we flirted a bit online but never asked me to put web cam on anything like that
never spoke on phone and he didnt give me his address to send him a birthday pressie ,when i asked him for it he just changed the subject, thats when my head started ticking

but by then i had fallen for him

so we carried on chatting i knew his op was soon so i wanted to see if he would make another excuse

anyway about 7 week ago he just stopped coming on msn , he has my mobey number so he could get intouch if his net was off

so basically he had taken it as far as he could go without actually meeting me or speaking on phone , hes prob moved on to his next victim now


im posting this on here cos i would never trust anyone anymore that wont speak on the phone cos they prob married or with some1
shame it took me so long to realise ! lol Rolling Eyes

 

29.09.2007, 13:49 quote

Chet24
Chet24 Joined: 20 Mar 2007 Posts: 12142 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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Sorry to hear that hun, I understand it must be hard for you but you must not give up! There are nice guys out there wanting to meet nice ladies out there (me being one of them). I've been here a while and got chatting to few people but it’s never gone any further than that, but I do hold out hope that I will meet someone in the near future!

If you stick around the on the forums you will get to chat to lots of fun, interesting people and perhaps like me make some great new friends....
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29.09.2007, 14:00 quote

Anonymous

hi hun
no i havent given up im just alot wiser Very Happy

ive been on here a few days now already met some great people ,been in the flirt pub on a night and had some laughs too Very Happy


i know not all blokes are like that , mr right is somewhere, might be 90 when i find him but i will Laughing

 

29.09.2007, 14:03 quote

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Good to hear, I hope to catch you the forums lots and lots then! I havent been in the FB pub must have a go!

I think there was a FB IRC chatroom as well
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29.09.2007, 16:13 quote

dish22
Joined: 05 Sep 2007 Posts: 23 Location: United Kingdom, England, Dorset
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It was August when EvE3 posted her message here about meeting with
some bloke.

She also added the fact that she was going to invite him
back to her place for a bit. That bit of what I do not know, but it does
send out the wrong message.

The age difference between a 34 and a 20 year old. Seriously people
give some better advice in the future.

EvE3 never came back to say how her date got along. I'm curious.
I only just read this, but it has been a while. How did the date go
anyway???

 

29.09.2007, 20:08 quote

Anonymous

Seriously people
give some better advice in the future.

Who made you the fbox Jeremy Kyle ????

Oh and hello and welcome

 

29.09.2007, 20:31 quote

Anonymous

Dish22 - Er whats wrong with an age difference? As long as the couple are happy it doesn't really matter. It takes all sorts to make a world you know.

 

29.09.2007, 21:15 quote

Anonymous

itsmetez wrote:
hi ev1 new to the forum Very Happy
i would love to know if u met up and how it went xx


i was chatting on msn to a bloke for 15 month ! (not from here)
we got on like a house on fire but he always had an excuse why we couldnt meet up !they sounded pretty genuine excuses at the time, his last excuse was his back as hes waiting for an op (so he said )
he was having scans and on waiting lists etc

anyway he said he didnt want to meet till he was sorted cos he wanted us to get together and be able to go out places and the rest ( he made it sound like his back was really bad so i believed him at 1st )
yeah we flirted a bit online but never asked me to put web cam on anything like that
never spoke on phone and he didnt give me his address to send him a birthday pressie ,when i asked him for it he just changed the subject, thats when my head started ticking

but by then i had fallen for him

so we carried on chatting i knew his op was soon so i wanted to see if he would make another excuse

anyway about 7 week ago he just stopped coming on msn , he has my mobey number so he could get intouch if his net was off

so basically he had taken it as far as he could go without actually meeting me or speaking on phone , hes prob moved on to his next victim now


im posting this on here cos i would never trust anyone anymore that wont speak on the phone cos they prob married or with some1
shame it took me so long to realise ! lol Rolling Eyes


I've read these sort of stories all over the net, sometimes from people who have been caught more then once. Sorry its happened to you.

I reckon if two people are attracted to each other chatting on the net, there's no reason they cant meet within weeks. a month at the most. But my opinion is within about two - three weeks. If distance is a problem for meeting within weeks, it will always be a problem, so best keep it just a net romance.

I would suggest that people should take no excuse for not meeting, and seriously look sceptically on someone who makes excuses for not meeting.

Just my opinion.

 

29.09.2007, 21:28 quote

Anonymous

dish22 wrote:
It was August when EvE3 posted her message here about meeting with
some bloke.

She also added the fact that she was going to invite him
back to her place for a bit. That bit of what I do not know, but it does
send out the wrong message.

The age difference between a 34 and a 20 year old. Seriously people
give some better advice in the future.

EvE3 never came back to say how her date got along. I'm curious.
I only just read this, but it has been a while. How did the date go
anyway???


Not sure she was asking for advice, just excited about meeting him.

If she hasn't come back there's a reasonable chance that the meet went okay, but it would be nice to know. Sometimes they update it if the meet went wrong.

 

29.09.2007, 21:30 quote

Anonymous

i arent normally so niave i think i got caught up in the moment sort of thing it wasnt long after i left ex and he told me what i needed to hear ,
to be honest we would have made (just)great mates cos we got on so well but he made out it was more
and yeah your right hun ,it does happen too much on the net

 
 
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