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Home >> Love & Relationships >> why do men say they love you when they dont?
19.09.2007, 01:02 quote
okay i dont understand why anyone would tell sum1 that they love them wen they dont? wat excatly do they gain from it?
19.09.2007, 09:31 quote
sex, money, food, the list is endless, you probably know the answer but don't want to face it, crappy isn't it.
19.09.2007, 09:40 quote
yea, sue, but you can turn the wheel around and say: yea, alrite. Or yea, whatever. To answer that I love you. That way you'll get the sex, food, bla bla bla, insteada them.
It's my new philosophy. ![]()
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19.09.2007, 09:47 quote
| sexysue85 wrote: |
| okay i dont understand why anyone would tell sum1 that they love them wen they dont? wat excatly do they gain from it? |
They usually say it when they want into your knickers early on in a relationship
19.09.2007, 15:50 quote
| cheekymunkey wrote: | ||
They usually say it when they want into your knickers early on in a relationship |
lol ........... i so wanted to say something similar Claudia, but didn't to sound too cynical about past relationships ............ lol
Having said that sometimes if there is a lot of lust at the start of a realtionship, you can have pretty strong feelings for a person, then as time goes by realise you dont actuallly have that much in common ............ Before you say it Cheeky, this doesn't apply to my current realtionship ......... x
19.09.2007, 18:24 quote
| annmarie5988 wrote: |
| at the start of a realtionship, you can have pretty strong feelings for a person, then as time goes by realise you dont actuallly have that much in common ... |
What about when there's just a couple of days between when you said I love you and when you split? What then? Ain't that called hypocrisy?
I once knew this guy who kept on sayin' I love you and acted exactly the opposite way. And when eventually questioning him and quotin' the westlife song saying "If your heart's not in it for real, please don't try to fake what you don't feel" he admited that he stopped caring a while ago. When asked: Then why did you keep on stating something you didn't feel? he said: Uhm, I don't know. Maybe I didn't wanna lose you yet.
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19.09.2007, 18:53 quote
| Bliss23 wrote: | ||
What about when there's just a couple of days between when you said I love you and when you split? What then? Ain't that called hypocrisy? I once knew this guy who kept on sayin' I love you and acted exactly the opposite way. And when eventually questioning him and quotin' the westlife song saying "If your heart's not in it for real, please don't try to fake what you don't feel" he admited that he stopped caring a while ago. When asked: Then why did you keep on stating something you didn't feel? he said: Uhm, I don't know. Maybe I didn't wanna lose you yet. |
Thats men for ya Bliss, cant live with um, cant live without um ............
No seriously in my experience alot of men only say what they think you want to hear, even though you tell them till you are blue in the face that all you want is honesty. I know all you nice men out there are thinking god she is so cynical and untrusting, but when you have been shit on from a great hieght the anount of times i have, then its pretty hard to trust a guy, even if he is nice on the outside ................. x
19.09.2007, 19:23 quote
Actually it's pretty hard to trust anyone, not just guys. People are hard to trust (pmsl, what does that say bout me? Hihi)...
Anyways... Sayin what you don't mean... I can think of another thing, as we're on this subject...
Have you ever had a date which went well but not well enough so at the end of it you realized nothin's gonna happen further and told the guy: "ok... see ya'round..." and he went like... "Yea, I'm gonna call you tomorrow" And you saying afterwards "Yea, nyways, see ya'round..." and him insisting "Nope, I'll be callin you tomorrow, alrite?" and him never calling??? What the feck is it with that? Someone told me it's male ego. So if you wanna beat them, you shouldn't be a nice girl and try to make it easy, just go like: You know wha, don't call me tomorrow, not the day after, not at Christmas, not next year. Ciao. ![]()
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19.09.2007, 19:57 quote
I've said it before and i'll say it again
Alot of men think that they gotta 'give' love to get sex
Where as alot of women think they gotta give sex to get love
Mars n Venus
Blah
Me...Cynical? You damn tooting I am.......
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19.09.2007, 20:02 quote
I don't trust easy either, I don't say 'I love you' if I don't mean it but everytime I've said those three words in the past, I get taken for granted or messed about.
Sharksy has therefore banned himself from ever saying those '3 words of doom' again.
21.09.2007, 19:37 quote
Hmm.. I've had this conversation before.. There needs to be a new set of "3 words" invented, that comes somewhere between "I like you" and "I love you"...
At the beginning of a relationship, there is so many strong emotions going on, and at the height of *whatever* you want to blurt out "God, I something you!!! Now, "like" is just lame during a moment of passion, so "love" tends to be the chosen word.. But it's one of those words you cant take back.. Once you've said it, you have to keep on saying it..
Someone please invent/suggest a new word quick!
(before tomorrow would be good!)
21.09.2007, 19:45 quote
| curraghmore wrote: |
| Hmm.. I've had this conversation before.. There needs to be a new set of "3 words" invented, that comes somewhere between "I like you" and "I love you"...
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22.09.2007, 22:19 quote
[quote="twistedvoilet"]i lust you[/quote♦]
I lust you Vi ![]()
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