I dont really think it applies, its a bit mean and theres no need for it, relationships should be equal and the shite does come with the good, as long as the good outweighs it thats all that matters i think. xx I hope your happy tho chic and if they hurt you again ill break their fingers

I think its being misinterpreted a bit here. My idea of treat em mean, blah, blah.....is not to jump when they click their fingers. So when they ask to see me again the day after tomorrow i just say i can't make that day, and don't offer a reason why, at this stage they don't need to know why.

I certainly wouldn't and haven't been mean to any men, its a waste of my energy to be honest, much better to use that energy in.....other ways

Erm let me think....................................................NO

I am no doormat so if this is your thing then i would just move on. I am sure that you could find somebody that would not mind this behavior but then again do you like it when somebody treats you like a doormat?

By the way do not let him back in your life as you deserve better and he was just a dick.

It is never that easy, love does funny things to both a man and a woman.
Have you never been with someone and known that you would do ANYTHING for them?
It doesn't hit you at once and suddenly one day they start treating you like shit, they sneak it up on you gradually, and before you know it you are knee deep in shit and sinking fast...
I've done it to a couple of people in the past, and boy do I regret it now, the funny thing is I really did think a lot of them too.
My last relationship ended badly (for me) , that badly that it has kind of put me off relationships for a while.
No doubt that will change but I'm in no rush.......

Mandy you had 4 or 5 guys on the go a year ago when you were on the site to... do you think maybe its time you gave yourself a wee break and wait until you actually know what you want and desire from a man - might save all this heartache you keep having..


instead of treating them mean and keeping them keen


you could


treat them right and maybe they'll stay more than a night

Yes yes, very good!!!!!!

Just trying to help