Is it possible to love somebody you do not fancy?

This is a difficult one...

I'm not going to lie.

I don't think it's possible.

well i think you have to fancy the person before you fall in love with them. Cause fancying them makes u take attention of them and keep thinking of them.

However, im sure if u love someone then theyre physically scared etc you can still love them, because by then itl have become about more than looks.

its a possible. im sure you could fall in love over the internet.

but then im sure a lot of people act differently online than how they do at home.

The simple answer to this is Yes, people can be attracted in different ways, personalities are a big turn on for alot of women/men.

Also some people believe its actually in your genes as to the person you are attracted towards (strange i know).

Its very hard to fall in love with someone you ado not fancy but it can happen, especially if your friends with that particular someone. There has to be some other form of attraction though, funny guys always get lots of women, even the ugly ones.

I don't really know the answer to this because u get some guys and girls out there who are shallow...But what I do think is that it is easier to find a much more genuine love with someone who u did not initially just fancy the pants off the first time u met, because if someone's personality isn't as attractive as their appearance..you start getting all confused and then along comes that old, but popular saying..."I DON'T KNOW WHAT I EVER SAW IN HER/HIM" Looks darling, looks...lol that's the only damn thang u saw which is why u are where u are now... ...

"The most attractive people can do the most ugliest things sometimes.."

I dont think it is, You can love someone personality, or looks bit if your having doubts already it normaly just dwindles out in my experience

its totally possible as there are diffarent types of love, and some people can have long term relationships with someone they dont fancy, but there is something else there instead.

Sexual love vrs none sexual love

I love my mother, father, brothers and sister but will never fancy them

I have to say yes, there are people that I feel love for but would never consider sexually (beyond my family)

All down to to the relationships you have

Wx

Well the answer is deffinately yes I am a christian and this is something that it states clearly in the Bible. So that we have to love everyone even if we don't like them even if they have given us a hard time or even want to kill us!!that is unconditional love. It is not easy but it is amazing the result when you love someone. That love is showen in your action as well as your words. So caring for the person in need or doing something a friend that they were not exspecting by you going that extra mile that is love. Taking time to listern when you know a person has has a hard time even when you don't know them. Because the word love has more than 1 meaning if we were greek it would be obivous what love we are talking about. So it get confussing because people mistake 1 love for another. Unconditional love, charity, Sexual love, parental love, love for something money or flowers thats (not human). So it very possible to love someone with out fancying them and you do it more than you actually know that you are being loving towards someone.