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21.09.2006, 05:48 quote

Anonymous

elkabong wrote:
im new here tonight but you cant expect every lady you send a message to send you a reply....bide your time, be polite & even crack a joke to get their attention and set you apart from the rest of the guys that have messaged her and you with some patience you might make a break through

the key is to break the mould - im sure the ladies posting here would agree that getting one message that doesnt say "get them out" or "wanna chat" and instead tries to have a normal chat with them would go a long way


Agree totally Elkabong

Welcome to the site by the way. Pull up a chair and make yourself comfy Very Happy

 

21.09.2006, 14:15 quote

Anonymous

Jonboy36 wrote:
53846 wrote:
personally, by ticking all the boxes available i dont think it is seen as keeping your options open...In my opinon it just looks like someone is not sure what they want, or that they are free and easy in what they are looking for (quite desperate)..not saying that was/is the intention, but can be read two ways i think..

and i agree..i read no strings fun as 'looking for love for one night' and
'casual encounters' as pretty much..dont want to get to know you too well but love would be good..

Yeah!!! ok.. when put like that i fully understand the jist of it...So Scotty i would like to thank you for drawing that to my attention initally.U2 there 53846...your name is strange to say the least ,,,and i mean that in a humourous way.
Ok so ill change what im looking for then what ....?
Will i get anymore response?
Hey at least its gonna be a step in the right direction huh,,,,and i do appologise if i have offended anyone out there,,,that was not my intention.
Bottom line i would like to make new freinds and hopefully my perfect match is out there,Maybe somewhere..........Hello ...are you out there ,,,,,,for gawd sake still no reply....Ha!


hey not a problem..dont think you offended anyone anyway..yes 53846 is a stupid name..(its the keys you press on your mobile to get my name,especially if you use predictive text..lol) but you are welcome to call me kevin..hope you do have success and fun on the forum at the same time..cheers

 

21.09.2006, 15:03 quote

Anonymous

Ok Cool Thanx Kevin ,,and cheers Scott. Wink

 

21.09.2006, 15:31 quote

Anonymous

Hi Jon...well u have gotten a lot of good advice here by all of our friends...my only comment is thoroughly look at the girls profile, pick something out of it that u have in common and bring that up in your message...god how i hate men that say wow sexy pic and thats all...i will reply and ask them what exactly in my profile attracted you besides my pic..hehe most of the time i dont get a reply back. lol....as all have said here, we have heard this before and we say the same thing, it takes time and patience and u have made the first step by coming to the forums...good luck, have fun....its a jungle out there

 

21.09.2006, 15:32 quote

Anonymous

ScotsDave wrote:
ladytracexx wrote:
ScotsDave wrote:
flowerangelaura wrote:
There are more men than women, that's a definate.

Some women do get lots of messages every day. The majority of those messages probably ask for love. Or have crude comments in them.
I find that the very few messages I do get have both of the above. Rolling Eyes




I keep waiting for mine to come Rolling Eyes



All good things come to those who wait! Well so i am led to believe Rolling Eyes




Waited long enough "stamping feet" Wink
temper tantrums will do not good Dave lol..you need to be spanked haha teasing

 

23.09.2006, 17:54 quote

Anonymous

Mark505 wrote:
Nothing is ever easy in life


failing is..lol

 

27.11.2006, 19:11 quote

Anonymous

As a dating site it sucks, i stopped using it a year ago for that and went elsewhere, ...is good for chat though

 

29.11.2006, 01:00 quote

Anonymous

Well, this site is all I can afford for now. Anyone know of a kind, honest man from Montreal Canada?

 

29.11.2006, 02:14 quote

Anonymous

Don't know that this site is a waste of time...I think looking for love is a waste of time. I have severe doubts that there are any decent men left in Montreal. Maybe in England?...... Sad Crying or Very sad

 

29.11.2006, 21:20 quote

Anonymous

Aluria said: "good luck, have fun....its a jungle out there"

I disagree,... it's more like a barren featureless desert....

Actually, I'm not joking,... have had absolutely no joy,.... kinda what you get when you look like a pink version of Shreck!

So as far as meeting a nice girl,.... nil points.
Listening to a load of "eccentric" and fun discussion threads,... 10

 

01.12.2006, 17:41 quote

Anonymous

ScotInCornwall wrote:
Sorry guys, but this dating site works just fine.

I get lots of replies and have had dates when I've wanted them.

I agree in that it's fine. I've got out of it what I've put into it Very Happy

 

01.12.2006, 23:49 quote

Anonymous

pirakkanaama wrote:
catlover2 wrote:
Don't know that this site is a waste of time...I think looking for love is a waste of time. I have severe doubts that there are any decent men left in Montreal. Maybe in England?...... Sad Crying or Very sad


am i decent? but i am in egland


you in egland? what are you..humpty dumpty..lmao


yes...looking for love is a waste of time...you have to relax and let it find you..

 

02.12.2006, 00:03 quote

Anonymous

pirakkanaama wrote:
KEVIN53846 wrote:
pirakkanaama wrote:
catlover2 wrote:
Don't know that this site is a waste of time...I think looking for love is a waste of time. I have severe doubts that there are any decent men left in Montreal. Maybe in England?...... Sad Crying or Very sad


am i decent? but i am in egland


you in egland? what are you..humpty dumpty..lmao


yes...looking for love is a waste of time...you have to relax and let it find you..


first pie face then humpty dumpty! im ashamed of you!!!


hey..you did say your name meant pie-face..did you not?in icelandic or something..
humpty was just a joke..

sorry piranah..forgive me..

 

02.12.2006, 13:19 quote

Anonymous

Curse you handsome devils!!!

Ah to be fair, there's bugger all Northern Irish people on this site,... even less from my part. So what can you do eh?

 

20.01.2007, 18:45 quote

Anonymous

ScotInCornwall wrote:
You're probably getting no replies because your profile says you're just looking for love.

Are you only messaging women whose profiles say they're also looking for no-strings love?

Most women don't respond to messages from men whose profile has "no-strings fun" or "casual encounters" listed.

The women whose profiles say they're just looking for love - read carefully. If they say they're looking for men OR women, they may be fake profiles. Also - check the last log-in. Half of the tits-out brigade in the Top 25 haven't logged in for a year or two.


Haha best message Ive read all day and so true.

 
 
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