Hi Jon...well u have gotten a lot of good advice here by all of our friends...my only comment is thoroughly look at the girls profile, pick something out of it that u have in common and bring that up in your message...god how i hate men that say wow sexy pic and thats all...i will reply and ask them what exactly in my profile attracted you besides my pic..hehe most of the time i dont get a reply back. lol....as all have said here, we have heard this before and we say the same thing, it takes time and patience and u have made the first step by coming to the forums...good luck, have fun....its a jungle out there

I think its a question of being in the right place at the right time. just by emailing a person and just saing the right things, you never no she may reply. Nothing is ever easy in life

As a dating site it sucks, i stopped using it a year ago for that and went elsewhere, ...is good for chat though

Well, this site is all I can afford for now. Anyone know of a kind, honest man from Montreal Canada?

Don't know that this site is a waste of time...I think looking for love is a waste of time. I have severe doubts that there are any decent men left in Montreal. Maybe in England?......

Aluria said: "good luck, have fun....its a jungle out there"

I disagree,... it's more like a barren featureless desert....

Actually, I'm not joking,... have had absolutely no joy,.... kinda what you get when you look like a pink version of Shreck!

So as far as meeting a nice girl,.... nil points.
Listening to a load of "eccentric" and fun discussion threads,... 10

Sorry guys, but this dating site works just fine.

I get lots of replies and have had dates when I've wanted them.