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19.10.2006, 19:27 quote

timster2
Joined: 15 Oct 2006 Posts: 15 Location: Ireland, Cork, Cork (Oliver Plunkett Street)
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do you really care about pissing him off

 

19.10.2006, 19:40 quote

Anonymous

After the last time I pissed him off?
Uh..yeah. I saw his true side.

 

19.10.2006, 19:46 quote

timster2
Joined: 15 Oct 2006 Posts: 15 Location: Ireland, Cork, Cork (Oliver Plunkett Street)
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flowerangelaura wrote:
After the last time I pissed him off?
Uh..yeah. I saw his true side.


Well if you really think he would go over the top maybe its best to leave it, i think he would probably realise that you really dont want anything to do with him anymore.

Either way your a good looking girl and you will find someone who deserves you and you will more than likely look back on this and laugh that you ever worried about him.

 

19.10.2006, 19:56 quote

Anonymous

timster2 wrote:
Well if you really think he would go over the top maybe its best to leave it, i think he would probably realise that you really dont want anything to do with him anymore.

Either way your a good looking girl and you will find someone who deserves you and you will more than likely look back on this and laugh that you ever worried about him.


He knows how to get under my skin..the right things for him to say..ugh.

and thank you.

 

19.10.2006, 20:01 quote

Anonymous

Laura ... sorry if this seems blunt .. but ur 18 -- bloody forget about him and move on , u've your whole life ahead of you x

 

19.10.2006, 20:07 quote

Anonymous

cheekyeyes wrote:
Laura ... sorry if this seems blunt .. but ur 18 -- bloody forget about him and move on , u've your whole life ahead of you x


Easier said than done.

This is the worse pain I have been through when it comes to break ups. Confused

It isn't just the break up, but I won't go into that.

 

19.10.2006, 20:11 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
cheekyeyes wrote:
Laura ... sorry if this seems blunt .. but ur 18 -- bloody forget about him and move on , u've your whole life ahead of you x


Easier said than done.

This is the worse pain I have been through when it comes to break ups. Confused

It isn't just the break up, but I won't go into that.

was i told u b4 u have to carry on with ur life and i agree with cheekyeyes said but also understand ur position Smile
oh well better days will come Wink

GC

 

19.10.2006, 20:15 quote

Anonymous

GCypher wrote:
was i told u b4 u have to carry on with ur life and i agree with cheekyeyes said but also understand ur position Smile
oh well better days will come Wink

GC


I hope so!

 

19.10.2006, 20:24 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
GCypher wrote:
was i told u b4 u have to carry on with ur life and i agree with cheekyeyes said but also understand ur position Smile
oh well better days will come Wink

GC


I hope so!

u can bet on that, and another thing i would like to tell u, if u dont mind Smile
no matter wot, whatever happens in ur life always LOOK FORWARD and NEVER LOOK BACK Wink

GC

 

19.10.2006, 20:26 quote

Anonymous

GCypher wrote:
u can bet on that, and another thing i would like to tell u, if u dont mind Smile
no matter wot, whatever happens in ur life always LOOK FORWARD and NEVER LOOK BACK Wink

GC


Interesting choice of words there.

 

19.10.2006, 20:38 quote

Anonymous

laura ..i know it must hurt , but u have ur whole life ahead of you ....... forget him you have so much to look forward to .. (chin up) xxx

 

19.10.2006, 20:40 quote

Anonymous

cheekyeyes wrote:
laura ..i know it must hurt , but u have ur whole life ahead of you ....... forget him you have so much to look forward to .. (chin up) xxx


I know.

I'm a little more optimistic now compared to a couple of months ago..

 

19.10.2006, 20:44 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
cheekyeyes wrote:
laura ..i know it must hurt , but u have ur whole life ahead of you ....... forget him you have so much to look forward to .. (chin up) xxx


I know.

I'm a little more optimistic now compared to a couple of months ago..

yep thats the way, u see most ppl in here had those moments like ur feeling now in their lifes and maybe sum still on it.
Its a matter of time Wink

GC

 

24.10.2006, 07:00 quote

kyheartacher
Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 460 Location: USA, Kentucky, Aflex
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This is something I deal with daily.I consel in domestic violence.One things you must never do is show fear the abuser will thrive off of that.And if he sees a opening he will try get you back .But once a person has showed you that they can or could hurt you,you need distance yourself from them.What an abuser does is has to have control.Once he has the control over you and he hits you or even beats you he makes you feel its your fault.So many women get stuck because of this.They are put upon to have to decide if this man says he loves her does,or should she leave get away.There is no cure for an abuser.And I just recently lost friend to it.She was beaten to death by her x,whom she left years ago.Im not really siure about your laws here.But you need get an order of protection.This will tell him legally if he comes around you he will go to jail.If he is one them psychos like we got that dont want to listen.Then you pick up something and knock the hell out him.Hey with this type person it comes down to them or you. Rolling Eyes

 

24.10.2006, 12:22 quote

Ekans
Ekans Joined: 21 Oct 2006 Posts: 230 Location: United Kingdom, England, Surrey
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There's a couple of practical things you can do..

Firstly, there is no need to change your number! Why should you, it's yours.. Call you telephone provider and tell them that your being harassed, they can block all texts/calls from his and any other numbers you specify.

Secondly, go to your local court and take out a restraining order to stop him from coming within a mile or so of where you live. The only draw back or downside to that is the fact that you will have to get the police to enforce it. However, the courts take a dim view on people breaking such orders. Have a look on this website http://www.cps.gov.uk/legal/section5/chapter_e.html
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