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03.07.2007, 21:17 quote

tlove
Joined: 13 Jun 2007 Posts: 6 Location: South Africa, Gauteng, City of Tshwane (Pretoria)
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Hi there all.

I need advise on something and I hope there is someone that can help!
Me and my boyfriend will be going on 8 months in a week, but my problem is mxit. everyone there hears more of him than I see him.

Don't ge me wrong I would do anything for this guy, but some of the people on mxit I will never trust. My boyfriend is my drug of choise, tried leaving him but what can I say I'm not a quiter on love.

I need someone that can help me with ideas to get rid of one B****!!!
She does not want to leave my salad alone.
Just a pity I can't push her in front of a bus!!!!

 

03.07.2007, 21:37 quote

Anonymous

wish i could help you, but not sure what you mean?

 

04.07.2007, 07:36 quote

Anonymous

cheekyeyes wrote:
wish i could help you, but not sure what you mean?


I was confused too but found a wiki entry about mxit. It's a South African messaging/chat system which appears to be very popular, very addictive and, in some cases, very dodgy.

I think this is a classic case of boyfriend talking to other women in chat rooms which isn't always a bad thing but is being seen as threatening to the relationship. It does make me wonder why one would join a dating site to get advice about it though. No offence intended, just curious.

 

04.07.2007, 20:57 quote

tlove
Joined: 13 Jun 2007 Posts: 6 Location: South Africa, Gauteng, City of Tshwane (Pretoria)
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The reason i'm on this site, is to find friens that I can trust to be honest with me .
I'm not looking for love. I just need advise on love. My past relationships was with guys you don't take to your parents and this is the first guy that I took home that is husband material.

This one girl on mxit is just getting to cozy with my man, and hell will freez over before i'll let her have him. She will have to kill me first!!!!!

i'M NOT DISSING MXIT COMPLETELY, IT DOES HAVE A POSITIVE SIDE TO.

 

05.07.2007, 00:28 quote

Anonymous

Umm, have you tried just talking to him about it? Us guys are usually more than a tad dense, so use simple words and short sentances Very Happy

But dont nag Very Happy Just explain what bothers you about it, and if he shrugs it off the first time, try explaning things a bit differently, if ya end up just yelling/moaning about it then you'll get his back up, but a calm and rational explanation usually goes a long way.

 

06.07.2007, 11:53 quote

Anonymous

Sounds to me like you need to ask him straight is there anything going on between you and this mxit friend. Tell him if there is you need to know so you can get out of the way as you clearly do not intend to share anyone. This might not be how you feel but It may well bring out the truth out. Tell him if he is more interested in this other woman than he is you he needs to say so, because you too want to have some fun and that he has no right to waste your time if he wants someone else. This may well cause him to come clean about what is happeneing. Remember telling little white lies sometimes uncovers larger darker ones. If you become annoyed and confident with him he will repsond far better than if you get upset and try to cling to him. Its a simple rule with men confidence attracts them clingyness repells them. Hope this helps. Wink

 
 
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