wish i could help you, but not sure what you mean?

Umm, have you tried just talking to him about it? Us guys are usually more than a tad dense, so use simple words and short sentances

But dont nag Just explain what bothers you about it, and if he shrugs it off the first time, try explaning things a bit differently, if ya end up just yelling/moaning about it then you'll get his back up, but a calm and rational explanation usually goes a long way.

Sounds to me like you need to ask him straight is there anything going on between you and this mxit friend. Tell him if there is you need to know so you can get out of the way as you clearly do not intend to share anyone. This might not be how you feel but It may well bring out the truth out. Tell him if he is more interested in this other woman than he is you he needs to say so, because you too want to have some fun and that he has no right to waste your time if he wants someone else. This may well cause him to come clean about what is happeneing. Remember telling little white lies sometimes uncovers larger darker ones. If you become annoyed and confident with him he will repsond far better than if you get upset and try to cling to him. Its a simple rule with men confidence attracts them clingyness repells them. Hope this helps.