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23.08.2006, 17:29 quote

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Now Ladies and Gents truth time again, don't you just hate that line I'll set the scene right, your out with your partner club or pub whichever and a stranger is making a real big play for her/him and they know you are there how would you react, say something do nothing get pissed of or just worry or maybe do nothing. It would be cool for your honest answers I know you will give them anyway, I am sure we have all suffered this go one I know you want to tell Smile This is just fun remember! but play by the rules.

 

23.08.2006, 17:34 quote

Anonymous

probably do nothing (and maybe be a bit pissed off), and maybe test the person your with a little bit, if they are any good then they should get the message across they're with u.

all lies.........i'd cry!!!!!!!!

 

23.08.2006, 17:35 quote

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nig76 wrote:
probably do nothing (and maybe be a bit pissed off), and maybe test the person your with a little bit, if they are any good then they should get the message across they're with u.

all lies.........i'd cry!!!!!!!!




An honest man Laughing

 

23.08.2006, 17:39 quote

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Nothing....!!! And flattered, The thought of someone chasing my guy, and making a play for him somewhat would bring a smile to my face. If the relationship was strong and the trust was there? then i would let him enjoy the attention. Knowing that he to be feel flattered but! want to come home with ME!
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23.08.2006, 17:43 quote

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ladytracexx wrote:
Nothing....!!! And flattered, The thought of someone chasing my guy, and making a play for him somewhat would bring a smile to my face. If the relationship was strong and the trust was there? then i would let him enjoy the attention. Knowing that he to be feel flattered but! want to come home with ME!



Such a strong Lady full of confidence Laughing but who's gonna win price for admiting they'd say something!

 

23.08.2006, 17:43 quote

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Me i find the power of intimidation far superior to the actual act of violence! only time it happened to me we were in a pub full of bootnecks! one of these geezers plagued my partner! so when he sat down next to her i got up sat next to him and rather politely told him what i was going to do!!!!! and then offered him the chance to find out!!!!!!! much better and satisfying than twatting him!!!! Twisted Evil Twisted Evil Twisted Evil
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23.08.2006, 17:44 quote

Anonymous

Totally agree with you there Trace. Well, I suppose I might be a little bit jealous (because I'm not getting flirted with/hit on) but I wouldn't be worried.

 

23.08.2006, 17:46 quote

Anonymous

i wouldnt do anything cuz i know my man would let her know that he is taken and then would turn to me and smile, now if someone started hitting on me well that would be the same unless the guy was getting a little to vulgar, then he would kick his ass lol

 

23.08.2006, 17:46 quote

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ScotsDave wrote:
Now Ladies and Gents truth time again, don't you just hate that line I'll set the scene right, your out with your partner club or pub whichever and a stranger is making a real big play for her/him and they know you are there how would you react, say something do nothing get pissed of or just worry or maybe do nothing. It would be cool for your honest answers I know you will give them anyway, I am sure we have all suffered this go one I know you want to tell Smile This is just fun remember! but play by the rules.


sorry..i am dumb..you say they know you are there..do you mean your partner or the stranger knows you are there..?

 

23.08.2006, 17:47 quote

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23.08.2006, 17:52 quote

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53846 wrote:
ScotsDave wrote:
Now Ladies and Gents truth time again, don't you just hate that line I'll set the scene right, your out with your partner club or pub whichever and a stranger is making a real big play for her/him and they know you are there how would you react, say something do nothing get pissed of or just worry or maybe do nothing. It would be cool for your honest answers I know you will give them anyway, I am sure we have all suffered this go one I know you want to tell Smile This is just fun remember! but play by the rules.


sorry..i am dumb..you say they know you are there..do you mean your partner or the stranger knows you are there..?


The stranger your there with your partner! its my writing style not you.

 

23.08.2006, 17:52 quote

Anonymous

I had an ex who was waaaaaaaay to possesive towards the end of our reltionship. If I so much as looked at another man he'd get all jealous and upset and decided I wanted to be with someone else. He tried to dictate what I could wear when I went out because he didn't like other men looking at me. I eventually found out what a hypocrite he was...he was cheating on me! As soon as I found that out he got dumped!

 

23.08.2006, 18:08 quote

Anonymous

well i have to say i would watch from a distance with a smile on my face. and then i would dance close enough to smirk at him. and her. i would watch her try and try and try to get my man. and i would giggle to myself. i would be amused at her attempts to kiss him and paw him. perhaps stand close enough to hear some of the conversation. but hear it as a stranger with no vested interest. she would meanwhile be watching me, watching her, flirting with him. and she would see me smile every so often. and she would be annoyed. and right at the end of the night i would walk up and tip my man on the shoulder, say "excuse me" to her and proceed to kiss him long and hard. then i would walk off and let him follow... never even saying goodbye to his admirer on the way.

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23.08.2006, 18:18 quote

Anonymous

If it was a girl hitting on my lady, I could care less and just take her home with us at the end of the evening. If she was hot, obviously.

If it was a guy, I'd just go find myself some alternative female amusement for the evening. I'm good at picking faithful-yet-creative partners. She'd be able to handle herself. The worst that could happen is the guy might end up in hospital.

I'd then proceed to take his girlfriend home with me and my partner and show her how it's really done.

If he doesn't have a girlfriend, replace with sister, cousin, mother etc.

 

23.08.2006, 18:20 quote

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swissrebel wrote:
If it was a girl hitting on my lady, I could care less and just take her home with us at the end of the evening. If she was hot, obviously.

If it was a guy, I'd just go find myself some alternative female amusement for the evening. I'm good at picking faithful-yet-creative partners. She'd be able to handle herself. The worst that could happen is the guy might end up in hospital.

I'd then proceed to take his girlfriend home with me and my partner and show her how it's really done.

If he doesn't have a girlfriend, replace with sister, cousin, mother etc.



kinky dan.... c'mere! Twisted Evil

 
 
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