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23.08.2006, 18:34 quote

Anonymous

probably do nothing (and maybe be a bit pissed off), and maybe test the person your with a little bit, if they are any good then they should get the message across they're with u.

all lies.........i'd cry!!!!!!!!

 

23.08.2006, 18:44 quote

Anonymous

Totally agree with you there Trace. Well, I suppose I might be a little bit jealous (because I'm not getting flirted with/hit on) but I wouldn't be worried.

 

23.08.2006, 18:46 quote

Anonymous

i wouldnt do anything cuz i know my man would let her know that he is taken and then would turn to me and smile, now if someone started hitting on me well that would be the same unless the guy was getting a little to vulgar, then he would kick his ass lol

 

23.08.2006, 18:46 quote

Anonymous

ScotsDave wrote:
Now Ladies and Gents truth time again, don't you just hate that line I'll set the scene right, your out with your partner club or pub whichever and a stranger is making a real big play for her/him and they know you are there how would you react, say something do nothing get pissed of or just worry or maybe do nothing. It would be cool for your honest answers I know you will give them anyway, I am sure we have all suffered this go one I know you want to tell Smile This is just fun remember! but play by the rules.


sorry..i am dumb..you say they know you are there..do you mean your partner or the stranger knows you are there..?

 

23.08.2006, 18:52 quote

Anonymous

I had an ex who was waaaaaaaay to possesive towards the end of our reltionship. If I so much as looked at another man he'd get all jealous and upset and decided I wanted to be with someone else. He tried to dictate what I could wear when I went out because he didn't like other men looking at me. I eventually found out what a hypocrite he was...he was cheating on me! As soon as I found that out he got dumped!

 

23.08.2006, 19:08 quote

Anonymous

well i have to say i would watch from a distance with a smile on my face. and then i would dance close enough to smirk at him. and her. i would watch her try and try and try to get my man. and i would giggle to myself. i would be amused at her attempts to kiss him and paw him. perhaps stand close enough to hear some of the conversation. but hear it as a stranger with no vested interest. she would meanwhile be watching me, watching her, flirting with him. and she would see me smile every so often. and she would be annoyed. and right at the end of the night i would walk up and tip my man on the shoulder, say "excuse me" to her and proceed to kiss him long and hard. then i would walk off and let him follow... never even saying goodbye to his admirer on the way.

Twisted Evil

 

23.08.2006, 19:18 quote

Anonymous

If it was a girl hitting on my lady, I could care less and just take her home with us at the end of the evening. If she was hot, obviously.

If it was a guy, I'd just go find myself some alternative female amusement for the evening. I'm good at picking faithful-yet-creative partners. She'd be able to handle herself. The worst that could happen is the guy might end up in hospital.

I'd then proceed to take his girlfriend home with me and my partner and show her how it's really done.

If he doesn't have a girlfriend, replace with sister, cousin, mother etc.

 

23.08.2006, 19:20 quote

Anonymous

swissrebel wrote:
If it was a girl hitting on my lady, I could care less and just take her home with us at the end of the evening. If she was hot, obviously.

If it was a guy, I'd just go find myself some alternative female amusement for the evening. I'm good at picking faithful-yet-creative partners. She'd be able to handle herself. The worst that could happen is the guy might end up in hospital.

I'd then proceed to take his girlfriend home with me and my partner and show her how it's really done.

If he doesn't have a girlfriend, replace with sister, cousin, mother etc.



kinky dan.... c'mere! Twisted Evil

 

24.08.2006, 00:23 quote

Anonymous

i'd do nothing, i trust people im with , i know if it was who was being flirted with the guy would be told straight im taken if they carry well that's where some action would be taken Very Happy UT

 

24.08.2006, 12:04 quote

Anonymous

ScotsDave wrote:
Now Ladies and Gents truth time again, don't you just hate that line I'll set the scene right, your out with your partner club or pub whichever and a stranger is making a real big play for her/him and they know you are there how would you react, say something do nothing get pissed of or just worry or maybe do nothing. It would be cool for your honest answers I know you will give them anyway, I am sure we have all suffered this go one I know you want to tell Smile This is just fun remember! but play by the rules.


I will admit to pangs of jealousy but would do/say nothing. If I was in a good relationship I know it'd be me he'd be coming home with and therefore wouldn't matter. However, if i felt that he was encouraging the other person,not making it clear he was with someone and made a habit of it, then I'd start to wonder if I was with the right person.

 

24.08.2006, 12:39 quote

Anonymous

Id sit back and watch, laugh it up. If she has any sense she will get a free drink off the approaching person, then come over and sit next to me.

Why be all jealous and stuff, if they turn round and leave with the other person, your better off without. The real test comes when its your turn and you find out if your allowed the harmless fun you have let go.

 

24.08.2006, 14:16 quote

Anonymous

ArktikMunkey wrote:

Why be all jealous and stuff, if they turn round and leave with the other person, your better off without. The real test comes when its your turn and you find out if your allowed the harmless fun you have let go.


Any jealousy I feel should be completely unfounded, that's why I would say/do nothing. I'm aware that the vast majority of the time I don't need to be jealous and in fact it pees me off that I do get pangs of it. It's when somebody lets that emotion overtake their senses that it becomes a problem.

 

24.08.2006, 19:55 quote

Anonymous

mcw82 wrote:
It would completly dependon who i was with. as trace said its all down to trust. i prob wouldnt say anything unless he really tried to kiss or grope etc but even then i know that i wouldnt get the chance todo anything cos shed most likely have twatted him herself!
Id still be a bit uneasy thoughm but from a distance!
Ah you know me so well!

 

24.08.2006, 20:18 quote

Anonymous

ScotsDave wrote:
Aurora27uk wrote:
mcw82 wrote:
It would completly dependon who i was with. as trace said its all down to trust. i prob wouldnt say anything unless he really tried to kiss or grope etc but even then i know that i wouldnt get the chance todo anything cos shed most likely have twatted him herself!
Id still be a bit uneasy thoughm but from a distance!
Ah you know me so well!




A lady might get upset if you were to interfere thinking she could'nt look after herself!
She might get upset if she thought you didn't care too.

 
 
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