my girlriend has been chatting to a guy onthe internet for about six years. she has never met him ,mainly because he is 5000 miles away, with hope that they will meet one day. anyway thi came to light to me two days ago when she told me. the prblem is that she says that she loves me and him 50-50. and she is torn between us. what do do ? wai till shepicks me or go......help . i do love her very much .

OMG! What a shocking situation! Seems to me that you'll not be able to put this one behind you until she's met the other guy for real, and the quicker she does this the better she'll know her true feelings, otherwise you'll always have this 3rd person in your lives.

Might just end up being a 'fantasy person' that meeting face to face would bring her down to earth with a bump, but if he's something special, then you may well lose her for good.

Good luck with this one!

sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but i think you should move on. to me she is being unfaithfull, falling for another guy. forget her and find someone that deserves you

I wouldnt wait about for her to make a decision! thats not a pleasant situation to be in but think about it if she picks you are you ever goin to be able to trust her! its not a nice feelin i hope it all works out for you

have aa break and let her meet him, dont wait around you should have all or nothing...if ure that commited to each other then you should not have someone caught in the middle. good luck xxx

Mm, that's bad news man.

I'm with the bloke up there saying she was unfaithful. Yeah, she might not have touched him.. but ya dont just fall in love with someone and be a saint. There's no way to tell that she hasnt gone on webcam with him and all that shite.

For you mate, she obviously doesn't love you if she was willing to allow someone else a spot in her life aswell. See where this is going?

It'll take a while to get over here, but it can be done (with a few drinks and a few one nighters)

good luck man. but you cant stay w/ her after that. you'll be forever looking over your shoulder and thats not a way to live your life.