ok i met a girl on a website, shes 24, shes beutiful, but says she works as a dominatrix, we've only been talking a day yet she wants to meet already, but the problem is she seem suspicious, shes real becuase iv seen her on webcam but she seems very open and its like i get a bad vibe from her, seems a little to good to be true, any advice?
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She seems a bit of a fast worker. Give it another week or so, ...if she still wants to meet after that then arrange a date with her and see if she goes for it. Just make sure you have the key to the cage before she puts you in it

....or you could just give her my e mail address

I could be wrong, but it sounds as though she's touting for trade.....

tim

the less sure I am about someone the less effort I put into meeting them. Don't go out of your way to meet if you're not sure, there's no real shortage of women. If she's quite local or is prepared to come to where you are, then give it a go, meet somewhere public, and don't take it further than that until you're mind is at ease & you trust her.

If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck then....

follow your base instinct...it's a duck.

Follow some sage advice.

Trust, without it you'll get no free candy...

I'd say this is quite an ockward post... Why don't you just follow your heart... You wanna meet her, go, you don't, don't go... Life's full of risks. Jeez... The dilemma... The power's in ya. And may the force be with you too.
About meetin in a public space... Do people on websites usually meet otherwise?

Hi Pirakkanaama, I'd have to echo 8legs' advice. You seem an imaginative guy - you should listen to your gut instinct, it seems to be trying to tell you something. I've often ignored mine, to my regret most times!

Sounds like a honey trap to me. Where is she from ? If its Eastern Europe then avoid like the plauge. Even if she isant she may try and get you hooked then start charging. If something seems to good to be true it usually is.

Since she wants to meet already, I don't think she lives too far...

Well you know the old saying if it looks too good to be true-it normally is! I'd follow your gut instinct mate-bit dodgy be careful!
Ive met girls off the internet after about a week-cause by then I will have decided whether its right to do so. Theres no rush-take your time.

No harm in meeting someone quickly. Personally, I've found the 'quick meets' the most rewarding (in many ways), although they often peter out quickly too.