well all i can say is that first, i see nothing wrong with a 26 year old seeing a 19 year old girl ..... and if your ex starts seeing someone ... is she going to do the same and not tell them about the boys ??? .... life goes on and relationships end ... i do feel sorry for the kids in it all (mine included) .. but maybe if you just give it some time ... and when ur ex realises that your happy with this new girl, and your both serious about each other then she'll come to terms with it and let you introduce the boys to your new girlfriend .... i'd say just give it time (oh and nice to see you back )

Depends what you mean by 'hide' them. You should most definitely let her know you have kids! How could she ever trust you if hide something so important?!

The truth always outs in the end, as red said she will miss trust you if you lead her on without telling her. After all, if it is long term, she will have to know sooner or later.

Depends on what kind of relationship you both want long term, whether or not she takes a mother role.

i would tell the new girlfriend trust aint easy to rebuild and you should follow the others advice as time will ease things between you and your ex, by the way does she still hold a torch for you?

no torches for you then!!lol! good luck with that at the weekend!