im zoe i had a lot of problems with relation shipsi had abusive relations and relationships where they were just after love n with my current life im scared a bit of commitment i no i cant dwel on the pasr but its hard when all has happened.

Welcome to the forums Zoe, …stick around and make some posts and I’m sure someone will be able to offer you some useful advice.

As for your question I’ll take love over money as I’m a hopeless romantic, …

Actually I’m just hopeless

A lot of people say "time is a healer" and all that. It really isn't.

You need to put your fears aside - Not all people are the same. There are men out there that aren't like that.

Maybe you should try and see a counsellor. Even if it only it for one session - you'll have at least had the chance to talk about it to somebody that isn't there to judge.

Er...that's the best advice I can offer, really. Good luck