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01.02.2008, 21:00 quote

sophylou
sophylou Joined: 27 Jan 2008 Posts: 4 Location: United Kingdom, England, Nottinghamshire
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Right, here is my problem =]

I fancy this boy, who i have fancied since July, and he did like me too.
Now we are practically best mates, who flirt everytime we see each other etc.
We do have something but I cant seem to figure out if he likes me now or not.
There are signs, such as "60 years time we'll be married" etc... you can imagine the kinda comments.
We also work together, and everyone at work seems to think we are going out. The people always ask "you and him shagged yet", and he tends to respond with a wink and we play along with it.
There are times when i think that maybe he does love me? and other times when i just think he doesnt.

I'm so confused.

sorry if this seems so niave, and is totally obvious but I really cannot decide what to do.
move on, or carry on trying to chase him.




advice is reallllllllllllly welcome

=]


xxx

 

01.02.2008, 21:06 quote

Anonymous

Well, why not just talk to him and ask him? Sorry if this is being stupid and stating the obvious, but if its troubling you what have you got to lose?

 

01.02.2008, 21:07 quote

annmarie5988

Well this one is simple ........... just ask him how he feels about ......... does he just want to stay friends etc ............ then you will know ......... Very Happy

 

01.02.2008, 21:09 quote

sophylou
sophylou Joined: 27 Jan 2008 Posts: 4 Location: United Kingdom, England, Nottinghamshire
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Baggiebhoy wrote:
Well, why not just talk to him and ask him? Sorry if this is being stupid and stating the obvious, but if its troubling you what have you got to lose?


I kinda bring some parts of it into the conversation, you see the other day he asked me "sophie do you love me?" i was like of course i do... do you love me? he said yeah of course. nothing less...

but then there is part of me thats scared to ask him straight up, because I acutally like the attention and the flirting, if he was to say no, i know i'd stop and not talk.. and i dont want that. if he said yes i dont know what id do!

=/

oh dear, im messed up... LOL

 

01.02.2008, 21:09 quote

70

Surely it's better to know one way or another. Confused

 

01.02.2008, 21:11 quote

sophylou
sophylou Joined: 27 Jan 2008 Posts: 4 Location: United Kingdom, England, Nottinghamshire
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LittleVixen wrote:
Surely it's better to know one way or another. Confused
yes i suppose you are right.

it's just getting to the question....

 

01.02.2008, 21:51 quote

Anonymous

sophylou wrote:
LittleVixen wrote:
Surely it's better to know one way or another. Confused
yes i suppose you are right.

it's just getting to the question....



jees, ..your just wasting time, ..the flirting is there as you say so he is obviously interested, ...just ask him if he wants to go out on a real date and jump on him at the end of the night. what you got to lose? Rolling Eyes

 

02.02.2008, 12:16 quote

annmarie5988

Leglover227 wrote:
sophylou wrote:
LittleVixen wrote:
Surely it's better to know one way or another. Confused
yes i suppose you are right.

it's just getting to the question....



jees, ..your just wasting time, ..the flirting is there as you say so he is obviously interested, ...just ask him if he wants to go out on a real date and jump on him at the end of the night. what you got to lose? Rolling Eyes


lol ......... the voice of wisdom once again Jimbo .......... Laughing Laughing

I do find it a bit strange that you have been close for so long and nothing has happened though ........... Confused

 

02.02.2008, 17:49 quote

Anonymous

annmarie5988 wrote:
I do find it a bit strange that you have been close for so long and nothing has happened though ........... Confused


I don't. My male best friend and i are like this all the time. Even to the point where he has said 'if we're both single when i (he) gets to 40, shall we get married?'

He is the worlds biggest flirt, so every comment is always taken with a pinch of salt by both parties. But we love each other to pieces and wouldn't be without each other.

And if anyone is wondering we have had the 'Shall we have a relationship' conversation, but i don't fancy him and he doesn't fancy me. Sorted!

 
 
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