Forgive, forget and move on.

sounds like she is coming back to you just because she knows you still feel for her, it gives her a feeling of importance and power.

marry her off and get out, enjoy your life and find someone new.

Move on. I know that be pretty hard, as you say you still love her.

If she got mad(or jealous) that you were at a female friends house, then she obviously has a problem.

if it didn't work first time around ... or second time around... and it aint working now either..... why carry on? why torture yourself? why drag it out and on and on? you need to get out while the getting's good. remember............exes are exes for a reason.... what forced you apart in the first place is probably still there...and always will be.

Went through all that, splitting up and getting beck together with an ex but the result was always the same. Thought it was worth trying to sort out our problems as we had been together for many years and been through some tough times together (she’s suffered from depression since her teens), but the problems would never be resolved. Sometimes it’s just better to call it a day and move on with your life.

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just joined i think ur x wants to her have cake an eat it u only go back cos u no what u are getting and if she is pissed with u at being in ur mates sorry to say she sounds like a bunny boiler

[quote="kyheartacher"]:shock: ok bunny boiler does that mean same as when she wants him its all good but then she doesnt and thats suppose be good too.She kind of wants him at her beck and call,and hello Scotland.[/ kind off just think, she does not no what she wants for herself but does not want him to be with anyone eles i think he should move the past is in the past and that were in should stay!!!!! :roll: quote]