right me and the x split up last year.i found someone else and things was ok untill the x got intouch.. and like a div i finished with my new woman to get back with my x .. [but i do really love her]. and we got back together this year in march .. things was going well untill she fort it wasnt working ... so we split up agen .....2 mths down the line we meet up go over the park and walk the dogz and we chatted about stuff .. week after im at my mates house [a woman] and my phone wasnt on.. she gets hold of me the day after and says stuff like she's been thinking about what we talked about and stuff .. but then she asked were i was so i told her and she started to go a bit mad .. sounded like she was a bit wounded that i was at my mates house [a woman ] now i still have strong feeling's for my x but now its like she dont wanna no .. and its messed my head right up what can i do ???ive tryed every think .

Forgive, forget and move on.

sounds like she is coming back to you just because she knows you still feel for her, it gives her a feeling of importance and power.

marry her off and get out, enjoy your life and find someone new.

To be as bluntly honest without seeming bold.But that cant be helped im a stand up stand out person.I am in the process of becoming a lawyer and there has been too many divorces.And to me the judges in my country are to at ease breaking up or dissolving a union made under God.And as for this author here i hopwe you listen to what i say.It seems that she is playing games with you and your heart.At some point and time its going to be time to stop.Think about this why does she want to know if you are with someone,do you ask her the same .I f you gave it your all,then its time to close the book on this subject.The staying together part should alert you,and dont you just seem to break up.Sit her down tell her you are not a yoyo,and its either together or not.Arent you getting dizzy,confused here.

Move on. I know that be pretty hard, as you say you still love her.

If she got mad(or jealous) that you were at a female friends house, then she obviously has a problem.

if it didn't work first time around ... or second time around... and it aint working now either..... why carry on? why torture yourself? why drag it out and on and on? you need to get out while the getting's good. remember............exes are exes for a reason.... what forced you apart in the first place is probably still there...and always will be.

Surely if you have feelings for them and you don't show it, that's as bad as not communicating properly isn't it?
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