I've never met that special someone, but I'll let you know when i do

people change as a result of their life experience, not as a result of meeting someone. staying out all night etc. is a natural phase most people go through (though some do it longer than others) and should not be cut short but let run it's course. if meeting IS a life changing experience, then that can change a person, but it can't be forced or it won't work. also not all men play the field, you'll find a lot here that don't, myself included.(i never get picked).
unfortunatly people aren't lumps of clay that can be moulded into the perfect match for u, get someone u like and enjoy them the way they are.

yes nyreen you hit the nail on the head there... men are simple but complicated. we know how to make them happy in everyday life....... but we don't know what makes them tick........ batteries?? what is it???

ah well in that case... get a good vibrator. i'm sure they use less batteries. although i DO go through a fair amount lmao