Well women are all different you have to look at each individual as an individual. There is no set answer to the 'what do women want question' its more of a retorical <sp?> question.

I like to think i can treat a woman with respect and have spark when they want a bit of fun. I just came out of a relationship of nearly 3 years and she said im the nicest person she knows (im not blowing my own trumpet, though it would be cool to do so!), so if you respect someone even when you break up they can still see those qualities.

No guy is mr right, there just Mr i can try and if you like what you see then thats all cool (long name! and really crap humour in this reply)

well thats what i think anyway, maybe i went off point a little bit.

The thing about it is, you say you tried to be Mr Right, why try, if your that sort of person it will come natural. Being yourself is better, but you can enhance the good parts about yourself.

Nice guys always finish last. I have first hand experience with this. I have just split with my fiancee of nearly 8 years (relationship was 8 years not the engagement), we got a son together and 2 weeks ago she cheated on me.

emma you are only 20 love, get out have fun and enjoy yourself, there is plenty of time to settle down and find someone.