- I'm a bit lost here to ?

And your point is what renaldo?????

Many of us here are ill, but don't start threads saying asking everyone what they think about us being on the threads.
Celebrate being alive and just get on with it.

Yes, i would. If i fell in love with him, it wouldn't matter what was wrong.

The sooner the better. People are more understanding than you think they are.

I think things maybe just need mentioning in an oh so matter-of-fact way If or When they come up. My ex-husband had a heart murmur which he didn't bother to mention til after our first son was born, it just came up in conversation. On the other hand, a friend of mine has epilepsy and she always tells people up front in case she suddenly had a fit and they panicked or something. Some people are ok about it, others aren't. Those that aren't.....well, that's their problem eh?
But some things are kind of hard to 'hide' or 'ignore' - my eldest son is manic depressive, mostly a little hyper and eccentric - people either like him for his individuality or they don't. Again, if a person don't like who he is then that's their problem. He has a lovely girlfriend, when he met her he said I better warn you I have mental health problems and she said Thats ok then cuz I'm on meds for paranoia, you gonna buy me a drink or what???!! They've been together over a year and are really in love.
So anyways, personally I don't see why anyone would bother to even mention a heart condition in a chat room, and even if I was going steady with someone and they asked me to marry them, I wouldn't expect to know everything about them all in one go - it's not like its going to suddenly turn them into some unattractive/nasty troll if I find out or not?!
I would only want to know something deeply personal like that if I *needed* to know eg what should I do to help if you suddenly collapse/have a fit/start hearing voices etc.

OMG!!! Averagemale how could ANYBODY not stick around/come back/call to see how you were??????
I was once in the street when an old man had a heart attack and I went with him in the ambulance and all, then went to visit after, we were friends for years after that til he died.
I am gobsmacked that a fellow human being could have simply walked out of your life cuz you ruined her date, or whatever reason she had. That is disgusting, I am so sorry you had that done to you! Can I send you a big hug, I know you dont seem too bothered, but it bothers me big time so maybe its me that needs the hug haha.