How do you handle jealousy?

I have recently worked out that I am much more jealous as a girlfriend than I ever wanted or thought I was.

Anyone else have this problem, or know a way to combat it?

x x x

You could kill your boyfriend?

No I couldn't kill my bf.

I don't know what kind of jealousy it is at the moment. We are having a sort of long distance relationship at the moment, and its not a huge stuggle me being here and him being home. I suppose I'm just jealous I'm not in his life as much as I would like to bbe, if that makes sense?

x x x

Well it doesn't look like there's much you can do about it, so i'd suggest sending him a cardboard cutout of yourself.

That way, you can be in his life all day long! (as long as he takes the cutout with him everywhere)

I'm not sure you can combat it..maybe suppress it, but it will always be there IMO. I've known people that have had to live with it. There are books around about coming to terms with it.

Sorry I cant be anymore help.

long distance relationships are the hardest when it comes to jealousy...you just have to trust and be trusted...good luck to you, i do know how u feel been there

Most issues around jealousy are about control, insecurity, distrust, make us feel out of control.
CONTROLLING never works!
Working on our insecurities does, if we find someone worthy of our trust!