well i think your very pretty and as all here knows..i probably am the least one to talk,,i am the oldest and i always feel i am not sexy,pretty enough for alot of the men here or anywhere...but have been proven wrong..there is a big jungle out there, weed out the crap and u will find yours hun...welcome to our wonderful friendly forums wher u will always get good advice

Unfortunately I have the same problem. (Except the majority of people don't even want to be my friend ) I'm not looking for fun, or a relationship, just friends. Anything else would be a bonus

Also, most people are shallow. They look at a person, if they like how the person looks, they'll try to get to know them, and so on.

A lot of people say they don't care about looks. Can the honestly say that, and mean it?

I'm sure there is nothing wrong with you.

Been there, done that.

I have now realised that I do have good points, so I focus on them.
Everybody has days where they think 'what is wrong with me'

Truth is, it's not you, it's them. Seriously.

This time last year I had almost no confidence or self esteem.

Just think positive thoughts.

I know it's easier said than done..

confidence..the hardest thing to regain but the easiest to lose...
and with confidence comes self esteem..both feeding of each other..low confidence,low self esteem..
yep, struggling with it myself..have done all my life..

Pain in the arse 'aint it..

nothing else constructive to say. will go away and think...lol

I stuggled with Anxiety, panic attacks, no confidence and no self esteem all at the same time. Not nice at all.

I still get panic attacks sometimes..not very often, like if something reminds me of something..or someone.

But a year on, most people can't even tell. I have changed so much.

I just read all this thread and it made me quite sad!

You are all gorgeous, intelligent, caring people yet you are letting society dictate to you!

Be yourselves and get yourselves out there. There are a lot of players in the world granted, but it is easy to spot them!

These forums are a fabulous place to chat but sometimes when we are all suffering from the same problems it can get low and that does not help any of us.

Concentrate on the things that you love about yourself and if other people do not like that then that is their loss not yours!

Sometimes when you are not expecting it the most wonderful people can touch your life, whether as partners or friends or even someone who cheers you up on the way to work! BUT you have to open yourself up or you may miss them.

As for the 'i want love' e mails, no matter what site you are on you will get them, use the delete button and smile to yourself that idiots like that are unworthy of your attention!

Pol x

dave..we share the same type of humour..lol jokes were good..

Don't get me wrong, it's nice to know that people want to have love with me...lol..