Okay...not necessarily 'Spearmint Rhino'....any brand of strip club will do, but u get my point...Men: I would love to know what REALLY goes on in those places (presumably, for those who have been)...are they as STRICT as they make out to be?

whats spearmint rhino?

erm... i dunno... strip club????????

weelll then i'd recon there's a bit of stripping ??

now i'm just lost

Spearmint Rhino's a rather expensive strip club in London. I believe they've just opened up a new branch in Tottenham Court Road or something...

Saturday night's ladies night I believe - why don't you pay them a visit and find out what goes on?

LOL, the ones I've been to on stag nights are spearmint rhino bournemouth and the one and only stringfellows.....both were very legit and VERY expensive.

The dodgier ones in Calgary I used to go to when I lived over there a few years back were quite legit, although after hours you'd often get an invite back to "a party". Never went as I was taken, but heard the stories although if I'm getting you right you mean if money exchanged hands? Not that I know of, it was just big orgies that I heard of.

It's much more acceptable to go to a stripclub over there, my Canadian girlfriend at the time used to insist on it before we headed to a nightclub! Awesome girl, haha.

Ha, seriously just let him go. It's a good healthy thing to do and although my experiences were in Canada, nothing untoward happened when I went to the ones in England. I was taken, never even crossed my mind to do anything behind my girls back, so just trust him and let him do the boys night out thing....

There isn't much going on in the Edinburgh ones now that the Edinburgh Council have moved in on these strip/lapdance places issuing new laws there meaning that there's no full frontal nudity, private dances nor are the men/girls working there allowed to touch customers anymore. So basically stag/hen nights in those places are sanitised now.

I've always thought that banning a partner from doing something is a poor move.

It's up to the one partner to behave, not the other one to control them.

As i'm a london cabbie i often take punters to spearmint rhino in tottenham court road, and im informed by them its the best in town, judging by the women i often pick up when they've finished work im inclined to belive its true as they are all stunningly fit and beautifull, some of the girls often chat to me and you really wouldnt belive the sort of money they are making in a night, ive asked a few if they "do extra's" to earn that sort of money and ive been told that some girls do but in general its just really close sexual dancing with no touching, sadly none of them have ever offered to pay the cab fare in kind