Why is it so hard for some people to meet someone that is serious about relationships and has a good head on there shoulder, and knows what they want I cant seem to meet a girl that lives near me or anywhere for that matter that does not smoke, do drugs, or drink and if she does drink its fine as long as its with in reason I just don’t get why not like this is who I am I am learning to be a welder I am also working very hard to make money because I am looking to start a business with my parents I am at times a simple person and times not so much I am laid back and easy going I take life seriously but I also love to laugh and joke around I don’t want to be 2 old when I start having kids because I want to make sure I can play games with them and have fun with them, I love to bake and I am learning to cook I know how to be very romantic and I treat woman with the up most respect.

very well said Chief....you as well has a good head on their shoulder

I agree with you there Chief.

You sound like a lovely guy Ice. A guy most girls would be more than happy with... when the time is right. It's great that you sound as tho' you would be ready to make a commitment for the right person, but (excuse me sounding old) slow down a bit and enjoy your youth. You only have this time the once, so make the most of it

you are all right in a way i will give you that, but its not like i want children right away but not to late either not b4 25 but no later then 30 anyways thank you all for the advice it helps a lot but it still makes it very hard to find a girl thats a lot like me i dont care if she is from a poor family and or country or rich i dont care if her life was not perfect i just want a nice,sweet, and kind girl

i think most of us want the same hun.... a nice guy, a nice girl.

all i can say is stop looking for it and it will find you. relax. meeting someone to be with is not the be all and end all. if it happens, it happens. but don't put too much meaning in it. your life can be complete in a whole range of ways that does not include a partner.

and yeah, enjoy being young and free and single. you're long enough dead aren't you?

im done being single i dont want to be single and i was never one to enjoy my younger teen years ( thank you all the fucking people in my life to mess it up for me burn in hell but really im not saying i want kids now oh god no but i would not mind being engaged but fine i will let it find me and just a little p.s you can't be almost perfect no such thing but cute nickname none the less