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27.09.2006, 18:05 quote

Anonymous

Change the subject, i feel like killing myself. lol.

 
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27.09.2006, 18:08 quote

Anonymous

I think you may have missed your chance. He has a girlfriend......move on.

 
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27.09.2006, 18:58 quote

Anonymous

MilkandHoney wrote:
I am in love for the first time and I've already screwed it up. He had a girlfriend when we started out and I fell hard, he told me he loved in the first week and it scared me so I called things off and told him to go back to his girlfriend. He cried and I hadn't heard from him since. Only recently he's started taking the same bus as me to college and I've realised he's the one. He's still friendly with me and has gone back to his girlfriend but he seems a bit distant with me. I know I hurt him. I explained how sorry i was and how i knew i'd made a mistake in a txt i sent him tonight, what do i do if he ignores it. How can i show I'm not messing him about, and that i'll never hurt him again? Would you ever give agirl another chance if you loved her and she hurt u?


Try and carry on with your life and see what happens, if he likes you more he will come running back..if not, don't waste your life on a lost cause.

 
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27.09.2006, 19:41 quote

Anonymous

You are still very young, are you sure it is love you are feeling?
Hell i'm 23 and i'm still not sure what that funny feeling in my stomach really is. Quite probably the pizza i had the night before.

If the guy has a girlfriend already i'd leave it be, i'd consider not even waiting to see if he becomes availiable again.
I wasted a lot of my youth waiting for one girl which never happened and i regret it.

Wish you well in your decision

 
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28.09.2006, 04:48 quote

ladytracexx
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MilkandHoney wrote:
I am in love for the first time and I've already screwed it up. He had a girlfriend when we started out and I fell hard, he told me he loved in the first week and it scared me so I called things off and told him to go back to his girlfriend. He cried and I hadn't heard from him since. Only recently he's started taking the same bus as me to college and I've realised he's the one. He's still friendly with me and has gone back to his girlfriend but he seems a bit distant with me. I know I hurt him. I explained how sorry i was and how i knew i'd made a mistake in a txt i sent him tonight, what do i do if he ignores it. How can i show I'm not messing him about, and that i'll never hurt him again? Would you ever give agirl another chance if you loved her and she hurt u?


Sadly i think he hasmade his decision ... learn from this and move on... it hurts now but in a week or two you will have forgotton all about it!
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02.10.2006, 12:49 quote

Anonymous

the guy does have a girlfriend already...do you want a boyfriend who tends to forget that he already has a girlfriend?

 
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02.10.2006, 14:38 quote

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if he's got a girlfriend and was seeing you at the time put yourself in her shoes, you wouldnt like to know he was seeing someone behind your back. he's cheated on her with you and would likely do it to you in the long run

think of it as a lucky escape

 
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02.10.2006, 16:54 quote

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elkabong wrote:
if he's got a girlfriend and was seeing you at the time put yourself in her shoes, you wouldnt like to know he was seeing someone behind your back. he's cheated on her with you and would likely do it to you in the long run

think of it as a lucky escape



I agree with that elkabong...... once a cheat!!! always a cheat!!!!! Confused
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02.10.2006, 17:08 quote

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ladytracexx wrote:
elkabong wrote:
if he's got a girlfriend and was seeing you at the time put yourself in her shoes, you wouldnt like to know he was seeing someone behind your back. he's cheated on her with you and would likely do it to you in the long run

think of it as a lucky escape



I agree with that elkabong...... once a cheat!!! always a cheat!!!!! Confused


Yep...that is a fact.

 
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02.10.2006, 19:27 quote

Anonymous

Jeggea wrote:
ladytracexx wrote:
elkabong wrote:
if he's got a girlfriend and was seeing you at the time put yourself in her shoes, you wouldnt like to know he was seeing someone behind your back. he's cheated on her with you and would likely do it to you in the long run

think of it as a lucky escape



I agree with that elkabong...... once a cheat!!! always a cheat!!!!! Confused


Yep...that is a fact.


rubbish

 
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02.10.2006, 22:45 quote

Anonymous

redoctober wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
ladytracexx wrote:
elkabong wrote:
if he's got a girlfriend and was seeing you at the time put yourself in her shoes, you wouldnt like to know he was seeing someone behind your back. he's cheated on her with you and would likely do it to you in the long run

think of it as a lucky escape



I agree with that elkabong...... once a cheat!!! always a cheat!!!!! Confused


Yep...that is a fact.


rubbish


Why do you say that ??

 
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02.10.2006, 22:52 quote

Anonymous

I'd be a bit cagey with someone who cheated on their previous boyfriend,... there are always unique situations I know, but right is right and wrong is wrong.

Still, time will tell all. I don't think anybody here will tell you anything you don't already know.

 
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03.10.2006, 06:20 quote

ladytracexx
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A leopard never changes its spots!! Rolling Eyes
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03.10.2006, 06:40 quote

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Jeggea wrote:
redoctober wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
ladytracexx wrote:
elkabong wrote:
if he's got a girlfriend and was seeing you at the time put yourself in her shoes, you wouldnt like to know he was seeing someone behind your back. he's cheated on her with you and would likely do it to you in the long run

think of it as a lucky escape



I agree with that elkabong...... once a cheat!!! always a cheat!!!!! Confused


Yep...that is a fact.


rubbish


Why do you say that ??

I've known too many people with either extenuating circumstances or have only done it the once. Affairs are not nice, especially to the person that gets left out and hurt, but the fact is, not everyone that has an affair meant it to happen. I should think there are a number of people about who's heart talks louder than their head.

 
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03.10.2006, 06:41 quote

Anonymous

ladytracexx wrote:
A leopard never changes its spots!! Rolling Eyes


In the situation that the poster tells of, I'm inclined to agree with what everyone's saying, but not all 'adulterers' are serial ones.

 
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