I think Ozz hit the nail on the head. Something between the two extremes is nice, …nothing wrong with T shirt and jeans but seeing a woman in a skirt or a dress is good from time to time. Especially if they have great legs

No one has mentioned what they consider being feminine is though, …appearance or behaviour?

my type is as follows..

i like...

someone who is not in need of a man, but would like one to share their life with one..
someone who is appealing and attractive to me..
someone who has a good sense of humour and knows how to have fun..
someone who is not always moaning and depressed because life is so unfair..
someone who knows the true value of friends..
someone with common sense and intelligent, but who can still laugh at their own mistakes..
someone whos good in bed, knows what they like and what i like..
someone whos caring and empathic towards others..
someone who has their own opinons and will express them, but will also listen to others opinons too..
someone who drinks and smokes..

bit of a list eh!.lol

someone who likes their music and will search for music they enjoy..
someone who trusts and in turn, i can trust..
someone who makes me smile just thinking about them..
someone who can let their hair down and not be serious all the time..
someone who takes pride in their appearence and in their surroundings...


ok..you get the picture.. lol

and do you know what...i think i have found the perfect candidate too..

VERY nicely said

I agree

not all biker women go for the jack daniels i was brought up with bikes and been to loads of bike rallies and helped taking engines apart, i like to be girly too though i have dresses and things only wear them if im going out though, mainly i just wear what i like i'm just a mixture i think lol it's the easiest way , no one looks twice if i go all grunge and same if i go out dressed to the nines, ahh well no one that knows me anyways lol they are just used to it

someone who is not in need of a woman, but would like one to share their life with one..
someone who will be a true friend, one whom I can share the bad as well as the good with and vice versa
someone who has a good sense of humour, laughs easily and enjoys making others smile..
someone who can turn a bad event around and see the positive side of things
someone with common sense and intelligent, but who can still laugh at their own mistakes..
someone whos good in bed, knows what they like and what i like..
someone whos caring and empathic towards others..
someone who trusts and in turn, i can trust..

Oh, and someone who appreciates that I am a mother and therefore come as a package.

Ok, I nicked some of Kevins words here, but only cos they reflect what I like.