I think flirting is ok if it's not taken too far or acted upon. I have good mates that I flirt with all the time and nothing would ever happen.

Some people are 'natural flirts' and sometimes don't realise they are flirting.

There is a difference between being friendly/sociable and flirting, though.

Dave, I get the same comments. I am an extremely friendly, touchy type of person and lots of people consider it flirting, but this is me and always will be. When I am flirting tho, i make special eye contact and maybe just the extra little pressure if i am touching the arm and little inuendos.

the crazilicious aluria

There is nothing wrong with flirting if you are in a relationship.
Unless you plan on having love with the people you are flirting with.

I can't stand insecure men. I'm a flirt, and any person that knows me(offline or online) knows this. It doesn't mean i'll cheat on a guy just because I flirt.

I know for a fact my boyfriend flirts with people. And I don't have a problem with it as long as he's ok with me doing it too. As long as we both no it goes no further it's ok.

I just hate insecurity in a relationship. It's the worst thing when someone, for no reason, just doesn't trust the other person. I've seen it in other couples and it's just awful.

If they'd had a history of cheating, i'd understand, but without reason - it's just wrong.

I'm so glad i've never had to experience it in any of my relationships.