i feeling dejected, have done for some time, i usually a funny guy , but find it hard to get back that way, was seeing sum 1 4 a while, but she ended it an yep usual heart broke story, keep getting told get over it! yep sure i will but it not easy to do it at he mo ,sorry people just wanted it off my chest,

i feel for you.... i'm still getting over someone too........ *hugs*

I know the feeling.

Broke up with my ex.....nearly three months ago...Part of me still hurts. I'm over him, but it still freakin' hurts.

i wake up each morn hoping 4 a txt like she used to do , she has txted to see i ok, but i think i waiting for more

hope your feeling better soon and times the best healer how long is it since you split up?

sorry for u mate but we all have up n downs and i am actually in the same situation as u, i have just broken up with my long term girlfriend 2 weeks ago, we have been togather for 3 years and see at the end it s all gone, i had the text trouble as well, i even slept with my phone next to my pillow just in case she texts and i dont hear,


Maybe i sound too nasty but i dont even wanna see her now cus i made myself hate her, that was the only way i culd cope with it and i asked her not to see eachother for a while so that i can feel bit better,

I dont suggest u the same thing i mean don't hate her but all ur pain is for nothin at the moment, u just upset urself but no one else, so stop being like this and refresh urself, there s a life out there for u and who knows maybe miss Right s waiting for you somewhere out there?

I am good at philosophy ah?LOL!but these r the truths of life sometimes u have to say " ok it s over now what s next?"n look ahead.

Hope u feel better soon mate

Cheers
TOM

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a lot of woman use this trick lets still be friends for following reasons

1)if they dont find someone else they still got sex on tap
2)if they do find someone else and it goes horribly wrong-shoulder to cry on
3)they dont want you but they dont want anyone else to have you
4)they still get bday pressies xmas and so on
5)they like seeing you distraught its a massive ego boost

plenty of exercise get out with your mates show the world what your made of

*note to self* practice what you preach

ps. not all women are like this and i'm not saying your ex is just my experiences. tgc

Can totally relate to what you are saying mate.. How long has it been may i ask?

Been about a month for me so far, she ended it, usual hear-broke story like yourself.

Do you still contact her a lot? When i first broke up with my ex we were texting all the time still, and it just made me feel hell of a lot worse as i wanted nothing more than things to go back to the way they were.. like.. i changed my entire life for this one girl, hurt me like hell when it ended, never ever felt so low before. But hang in their mate, it is true what they say time is a healer. I would suggest trying to get back to the things you used to do before you met her?!? this is what i've done and it helps me forget how life was with her.

Hope this helps mate, keep ya head up

that seems to be the hardest part of love is getting over it.But you will one day and wake up know its going to be a glorious day.And know there is someone out there with your name on their heart just for you.But hey you got to look first.This is a great site I found mine here.Just give it time and you will see someone will make the ache go away.But till then keep on smiling ,even if you feel like crying,

I've felt down since the day she left. I know she isn't going to text or ring & I know she ain't coming back either, she can't even be bothered to see our children.

Every day is a struggle and I just cling on to the hope that some day soon someone else will pick me up & make me feel whole again.
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i think everyone at some point in there life has felt that same feeling.

i know it all to well only prob is and i know some of u guys might hate me for saying it . but i finished with my boyfriend of 3 years.

its been a few months now i did tell him i made a mistake and wanted him back but it was to late the damage had been done and he didnt want me. there is no worse feeling than the one that u know u have made a terible mistake and cant do any thing to fix it.

i also sleep with my phone under my pillow hoping he will txt or call. xxx