you know you'll get over the breakup in time..... that's fact. non negotiable.

but...what about the child... how old was he? how long were you his "father" for? can you just forget him?

i think if you bonded with this child as you said you have... you are feeling more than the usual strains of a broken relationship. maybe...just maybe... if you asked her... she'd let you see the child once a week? take him to the park or to feed the ducks? this child may think of you as his father and may be confused and in mourning himself.

tyvm

the saying is true... "Time heals all wounds"

and in time, perhaps you might wonder what you were doing with her to begin with. she sounds a right stroppy, selfish girl. but think on my suggestion for seeing the child..... it may turn out to be the best thing you ever do.......

I'm not one for big speeches and do's and dont's all i can say is time IS a healer .. give it time ... and all will be fine

No of course not ??

not i just meant without going into the arse of things ... time IS a healer.

good for you!!!!!!

there's more to being a parent than DNA.

what did i tell you ... Times a healer ... glad your feeling better (cheeky eyes ) aka cheeky arse