does anyone have any hints what to do when u like someone who u know doesnt really like u, and doesnt want any kind of relationship? i've been dating this guy the past few weeks, and its fun and i really like him, but getting the impression he's not to interested. im a sucker for relationships and always want to much, but i always think that if u dont give it everything and expect the best, then the best will never come.

Hi Kathy, maybe you are just expecting to much? Why not just go with the flow and takes things a little more of a steady pace! maybe the guy thinks that it is all going a little two quick for him?
To give everything is good.. but it does not have to be done in a rush!
Away to a mans heart sometimes, is to back off a little and let him do some of the chasing.
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i keep telling myself that its cool 2 let the guy chase, i just get myself into these stupid panic modes, thinking what if this, and what if this. cheers 4 ur help though, i'll try and put it into practise!

i know its hasrd! But! sometimes it does work. Good Luck
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Girls... if you can discipline yourselves to be 'easy about it' then I'm sure he'll be more interested.

I'm guessing at the mo youre just a little too available, chill out....

Honestly it does work!

Good luck x

Ever try talking to him? Put him on the spot. Actually, scrap that. He'll probably tell you what you want to hear (eary sence of deja vu with my ex)
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i dont think he would! he seems to be the type that would tell me what he felt and be nice about my feelings, but not really care. i dont half pick em!

Maybe you could ask him if he'd like to do something that would suggest you like him, like you could bring up the fact that there's a romantic or sexy film on at the pictures, and ask him whether he likes that kind of stuff, maybe going on what he says you could perhaps invite him along to see the said film? Just an idea that's all

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hey Kathy you should consider yourself lucky.. Look at me I'm lonely and has nobody in my life.. I don't know whether I look bad or what.. I tried to talk to many australian girl and after asking two question your name and the course you're studying thats it.. no answer just silence or she left her sit and I'm alone.... man... why I am so unlucky

hey Kathy you should consider yourself lucky.. Look at me I'm lonely and has nobody in my life.. I don't know whether I look bad or what.. I tried to talk to many australian girl and after asking two question your name and the course you're studying thats it.. no answer just silence or she left her sit and I'm alone.... man... why I am so unlucky

cheers for help guys, im going 2 give up on this guy and stay away from them all for a while, cant b doing with the stress of it!

and to jameslio; keep positive, it'll happen! i looked at ur profile and its pretty good, but ur description was a little boring, try saying some more stuff about urself and less stuff about the citizenship, it doesnt need mentioning. u live in australia so thats enough of a reason 2 want 2 meet some1 over there. good luck with it!