I'm not the most handsome bloke in the world. I carry a few extra pounds and have no idea about current fashions, I just try to dress smartly.

My real question is, do you think there is any such thing as being in someone's league. I used to think so but now I'm not so sure.

There was this girl I used to work with. I've adored her from the moment I laid eyes on her. But I never told her how I felt because I didn't think I was good enough. Which is silly, why aren't I good enough?

Now it's too late, she's in a long-term relationship, and although we remain great friends I miss her every day.

Anyone else ever missed an opportunity because didn't see the good inside themselves?

uh huh i agree with ryan!

It is a confidence thing.

Unfortunely the majority of us probably feel we aren't in somebody elses league.

It isn't just about looks, though. If you know somebody, and know that they are brilliant, intelligent, funny...yet you may feel they are better than you just for that.

At the end of the day, you just have to believe in yourself and get that confidence.

Everyone is their own worst critic and will often find ways to put yourself down, …that’s certainly true of myself. But as it’s been said “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” and everyone is looking for something different in a partner. Saying that someone is out of your league is closing the door on a chance that may never come again, …bite the bullet, make a move and you may be surprised.

i used to thinks looks mattered but i feel madly in love one my x and to tell u the truth, lots of my freinds could not beloeave i would end up with some one that did not look that hot (their words not mine) but he could light up my day with his jokes, so looks dont matter u just to go get