i'm the same... my ex is out there doing whatever it is that he does...(not a whole bloody lot when we were together anyhow) while i have the kids 24/7. dont get me wrong i love my kids and love being able to spend time with them. but i do resent the lifestyle my ex may or may not have created for himself.... at least he had the chance.

my mother will take one of them for one night at the wkend if she can and my granny will take the other one. but i have to be down early in the morning to collect them so can't really take off somewhere. it's quite frustrating. my youngest is only 3 so i can't take him away for a weekend either.

oh blah. but hey in ten years my daughter can babysit.

i know how you feel cozy girl, i'm only 21 and have my little girl 24/7 i have to nag her dad for say a month or so before he will actually pick her up, i've given up now and just stay in , i must say this site has been a lifeline i can have more fun on here chatting to people than i do when i go out and realise everyone's dissapeared and setlling down lol. Keep a smile on your face and keep posting you'll get there in the end

Most of the time we get on fine, it's just this particular issue. He was the same when we were together and the girls dad would drive the 5 hrs up here and back because the boys dad refused to do any driving.

I know by law that if i don't have a vehicle, he should do the trip, but it would mean court and I just can't do it emotionally or financially.

i spend every other weekend with my daughter who is just coming up to 4. i had ti fight hard for the access and contact, not because of my ex but her father was being a t**t. me and my ex get on better now we are seperated than when we were togehter. i have been single for about 3 years and i would never say i want a relationship with a person but no involvement with any children they might have. the kids always come as part of the package. its just a case of finding the rgh person to spend time with. j

ým love man

Hi all
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I spose im lucky when it comes to this as i get on with my ex so we pretty much share responsibility for the kids so each of us can go out. Still havn't found anyone though lol.
Dave x

Hi and welcome .... nice to hear when couples get on after a split ...... it s the way it should be

I am Miss alice, I am single. but right now am in Dakar Senegal both in West Part of Africa.However How are you? hope you are fine and in perfect condition of health.I went through your profile and i read it and took intersest in it,if you don't mind i will like to know you much better,although i came online to look for a true and loving man that is ready for a true,honest and loving relationship and will be able to take good care of me if you are the kind of man am talking about then send me a mail now on my private email included,so that i will tell you all about myself and a picture of myself.looking forward to hear from you (alice_ofor009@yahoo.com) thanks and God bless . Best Regard, alice

Hello and welcome halo. .... theres an introductions topic 3 down on the ''Anything else'' thread.. post a hello in there, and have fun posting

hi all new to this so fingers crossed.....er single mum not exactly looking for love as much as online friends, folks with same interests that i can have a good natter with....crap at the dating stuff so gave that up, gawd does that make me sound really sad???????

thanx cazzabee hoping to chat to some