WHY IS IT THAT MEN SEEM TO SHY AWAY FROM SINGLE WOMAN WITH KIDS...ITS NOT AS IF THEY DONT HAVE KIDS THEMSELVES...OR AM I JUST BEING PARANOID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its the same here in the United States, I have been a single mom for 13 years and my son 16. not like he wont be out of the house soon. Take care you will find someone, I might just have from being online, but mines out of canada. Good Luck to you.

sorry double postd lol

hey its not only the woman who have problems..im a single dad of three...have been for the past two years...and its really hard to find anyone willing to give you the time of day....they seem to think that you wont have enough time for them or if they have kids themselves that you wont give them the time of day....i know kids come first for nearly everyone who has them but we need to have a bit of happiness as well dont we.....

I respect anyman that has taken on the responsiblity of raising kids on their own , for whatever reason. True, it must be hard on the men, women want their own kids, pure selfishness, or jealousy. The older you get the wiser you get and realize if a match is made it is gonna be with the whole package. I have raised my son, but if there was a man that had children and we clicked that would be happiness. cheers to you for being their for your kids.
Aluria

i have been a single mom for 12yrs and i respect any man for bringing up their kids there are a lot of men out there that say they want kids and then leave when the going gets tough..

well ive been a single mom 4 years !! im younger than most ov u but id like 2 say!! that as far as im aware men and women r the same!! we do a runner same as the men!! i was gonna start datin a single dad and yer im ashamed 2 say i ran!! im only 20 and ave a 4 year old my self... so yer i was scared

HI BIGG5268....WELL I AGREE WITH YOU WHOLEHEARTEDLY...WE DO DESERVE SOME HAPPINESS...WHEN THAT WILL BE HEAVEN ONLY KNOWS...HOPE YOU FIND WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR

Well personally I certainly wouldnt run from a woman with a kid and seeing as I have a daughter Im pretty sure I would be good with him/her but part of the worry for me is that I would end up in a scenario where Im raising and spending time with someone elses kid instead of my own who is ironically, spending time and living with another man.

well ive not got any kids but maybe sum men/women run off from singleparents cause the idea of the child to hard to cope with even though its not theres.
id like to think it wouldnt stop me and it seems a shame that it causes problems for parents. but im sure youll all find happiness eventually.

my son is 16 and pretty much gonna be on his own in 2 years, so does that mean I need to wait for that special man, I dont think so, there are so many men out there and again I say if they dont appreciate what I have to offer besides my son, its there loss all the way around and upside down lol

well... id agree wiv u!! but im 20 years old the only sort ov man will look at me is like in hiss 50s i dnt want sum1 older enuff 2 b my dad... its jst wrong mayb im lookin in the wrong place 4 him!!