i feel for u girl.life's tuff when u dont get to see ur kids so i hope that u dont have to selll ur car so u can keep on seein ur sons.
i dont really get on with my ex anymore as he doesnt see his son often enough and he lives 5 mins walk away and works 2 mins from us and never pops in to see his son.i dont see my eldest son often either as hes workin but any free time he has he spends at his dads.my daughter does come down to me every 2 weeks(she lives with her dad)so i can see my grandchild.
its hard not seein them i know but we have to get on with life for the sake of our other kids....chin up ppl....

maybe u need to throw some sort of singles night for single parents sometimes its easier for another single parent to understand ur situation!!!

I think that if a man wants to be with you he has to accept your children right along with you.Cause the way that i look at it if he cant accept your children then he cant accept you,real love will accept you and your kids it is better to get the whole package than to get nithing at all.As a matter of fact I dont care if the woman has kids who i meet and start a relationship with I will take the whole package deal.

A nice positive post and welcome Irishmanslove.. Hope to see more of your posts
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i spend every other weekend with my daughter who is just coming up to 4. i had ti fight hard for the access and contact, not because of my ex but her father was being a t**t. me and my ex get on better now we are seperated than when we were togehter. i have been single for about 3 years and i would never say i want a relationship with a person but no involvement with any children they might have. the kids always come as part of the package. its just a case of finding the rgh person to spend time with. j

ým love man

Hi all
New on here
I spose im lucky when it comes to this as i get on with my ex so we pretty much share responsibility for the kids so each of us can go out. Still havn't found anyone though lol.
Dave x

Hi and welcome .... nice to hear when couples get on after a split ...... it s the way it should be

my daughters father lives in holland i get out once a quarter....yes , every three months argh!!! i am only 27 years old and feel like i should be collecting my pension . my little girl is everything to me but i need conversation with adults otherwise im going mad....i dont work as im studying my degree from home with open university so i dont get to meet anyone then either.... anybody know of any places you can go to meet people or anything as im getting more lonely and brain dead as time goes on

I am Miss alice, I am single. but right now am in Dakar Senegal both in West Part of Africa.However How are you? hope you are fine and in perfect condition of health.I went through your profile and i read it and took intersest in it,if you don't mind i will like to know you much better,although i came online to look for a true and loving man that is ready for a true,honest and loving relationship and will be able to take good care of me if you are the kind of man am talking about then send me a mail now on my private email included,so that i will tell you all about myself and a picture of myself.looking forward to hear from you (alice_ofor009@yahoo.com) thanks and God bless . Best Regard, alice